Are Aspergers women different to aspergers men emotionally?

Question

I met this aspie girl, shes has a lot of previous sex partners. Says she never loved them even if she told them that, says she loves me though.

But a lot of aspie guys say they don't love, so whats the deal? I studied the internet sites but few talk about women aspies and fewer about love or sex.

What is love, are we all dressing it up a little. If its an animal thing like anger, or fear then love should be present in many creatures and should be better understood. If its an intellectual thing in the more recently evolved part of our brain, then is it just a constructed idea, that appeals to us makes us feel better?

Answer 1

in my teenage years when i was still living in the home of my parents i used to go hunting for aspergers

most times the location would be obvious
it was just finding it
and keeping track of where i found it

but that was well over 40 years ago

back when i would collect pop bottles and sell them to go to the movies on sunday afternoon

oh my...there is some aspergers and look over yonder: there's a pop bottle...maybe i can get a dime for it!

Answer 2

Sounds a bit like apathy and anhedonia.

Of course love is sometimes a little fictitious, a little made up. We all embellish our lives a bit to feel better about ourselves.

If you haven't already, you can visit this site for more information about Asperger's. Perhaps start a discussion there and see if anyone else is experiencing the same.

http://dailystrength.org/support/Developmental_Learning_Disorders/Asperger_Syndrome/

I wish you the best of luck...love is as complicated as it is simple. What is the difference between a mother's unconditional love, and the love we feel for our significant others' which often feelings so fleeting and fickle? Because we are only human. I wish you two the best of luck.