im 15 and a boy and i think im about to loose my virginity to my bf that is 19 any comments on what i should d

Answer 1

You should wait until you a bit older. This guy should not be pushing you into sex right now. He is an adult, and you are only 15 years old. If he cares about you, he will wait.

Answer 2

LOOSING ONES VIRGINITY SHOULD NOT BE DONE AT 15 FOR SEVERAL REASONS!

You are really too young to deal with the emotional side of things well. HE WILL BE A PEDOPHILE! IT IS ILLEGAL.

Do not think that he will be with you forever....you need to make your first time with someone who WILL BE WITH YOU FOREVER.

At 15, you have no experience on how to protect yourself. Condoms are just one precaution. There are several for anal sex, if not followed, can cause you serious health conditions.

If he has sex with you at 15, how many others has he had sex with~~and don't trust his lying to you~~and you have no idea if he has an STD. NOT ALL STD's HAVE SYMPTOMS THAT YOU CAN SEE. If he has not taken the proper precautions beyond condoms, you could be in for some serious health risks.

Your lifestyle is your business, I would tell these things to heterosexual 15 year olds as well. AS A CONTRIBUTOR HERE, MY MAIN CONCERN IS YOUR WELL BEING. THAT IS WHY I VOLUNTEER MY TIME HERE.

PLEASE LEARN TO CONTROL YOUR SEXUAL DESIRES UNTIL YOU ARE AT MINIMUM 18 YEARS OLD. THERE ARE A LOT OF THINGS TO LEARN BETWEEN NOW AND THEN~~GET ON A SEARCH ENGINE AND START NOW!
ALSO, YOU NEED TO BE VERY SELECTIVE IN YOUR CHOICE OF MEN TO GIVE YOURSELF TO. THERE ARE SOME DOG'S OUT THERE.

LEARN TO MASTURBATE, IF YOUR SEXUAL URGES GET TOO GREAT. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS.

Answer 3

Wait until you are a little older to make that decision. If you are having to ask people what you should do then you should'nt do it. Also, I gather that you are gay? If you are considering having sex with another boy and you are a virgin then that decision will affect the rest of your life. So make sure that you are doing the right thing for yourself. The other boy is 19? He can get in legal trouble. Be careful and USE PROTECTON! ;)

Answer 4

dont lose ur virginity unless ur ready. if ur not ready then be strong and dont let it happen. its not a bad thing to wait for the right one. in some places u have to be atleast 16 i think, so ur 19 yr. old bf could get in trouble. if ur ready, then go ahead, its ur life.

is it a great idea?, no, not really.
if i were u, id just be careful bout whats happening, and make sure i dont do ne thing that i'll regret later. its ur life, and hopefully u make a good choice.

Answer 5

Well that's your own decision but I think you should wait. maybe make sure that that's what you want, if your doubting it its because its not totally what you want and if he is this much older than you you have to keep in mind that he may just want the sex! After all being able to "pop someones cherry" is a very enticing thing.

Answer 6

a boy loosing virginity to a boy.. heard of nethin like this 4 the first time.

Answer 7

if you love him and he loves you you two will wait till the time is right for both of you and there are no doubts and make sure he has no STDs he can transmit to you so you know wether a condom is absoloutly nessasary oh and hope hes cute;D

Answer 8

you're 15, and a boy and you have a bf. you're gay? good luck. are you sure about what you're about to do? don't you want to wait awhile before you give up your virginity?

Answer 9

Tell your parents so they can immediately install a chasity belt. I had my first child when I was 18. I GOT PREGNANT MY FIRST TIME WITH TWO FORMS OF PROTECTION (Condom and Depo). The sex wasn't even that good. Think twice and respect yourself more!!!

Answer 10

No..No..NO..NO..you should be focusing on school. How many highschool relationships make it? What happens if you get pregnant? STD's I know no one thinks it will happen to them? Parents find out?

Hold out for when you are more mature and aren't in puppy love.