My girlfriend came home with a sexual companion on Friday, a "rabbit" vibrating device that she says is just for fun. HMM, how should I take this, my rabbit not good enough?
2007-06-17 19:19:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The honest to God truth is you are either not giving it to her often enough or else not good enough. Those are the only reasons women buy vibrators. Not because they're cute, 'not because you will both have fun using it, but because it makes her feel much better than you do.
2007-06-17 19:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just think of it as an added bonus in the bedroom. Nothing against you or your member... nothing can replace it, I promise you that... However, toys can add spice in the bedroom... and you just might enjoy watching her use it....or even you can use it on her...
Don't take it personally. She wouldn't be with you if the toy could do everything you could... it's the warm touch, the kisses, the feel of your skin... your breath... your smell... the comfort of you that no toy can ever replace.
Just another side note from a girl: not being confident about yourself is a major turn off. Accept it with an open mind and take it as another step into the relationship... take it like a man and enjoy the passion even more!
2007-06-18 02:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could A) Not talk about it..assume that you suck in bed..she isn't satisfied..wants something else..etc or you could B) Talk about it..use it..have tons of fun..and buy more toys!!!
I vote for B my wife doesn't like clitoral vibrators!! What's up with that? Well at least she doesn't like any of the ones I have bought her..yet!! I would be happy especially if you guys get to use it together....good luck.
2007-06-18 02:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lovemykids 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not like that...use the rabbit on her...but also lick the clit while using it...bring her to orgasm. see if it lasts. If it comes down to a choice between net letting her *** and feeling inferior for having her *** by a toy, chose the toy. Else she will use the electric rabbit anyway, and maybe even another dudes rabbit...don't test her, make her happy.
2007-06-18 02:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by kevbeer2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude deal with it ur rabbit is small no man like u still masturbate dont u even if u have a gf she likes doing the same thing
2007-06-18 02:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by castro134 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea I agree. Since she was open with you about the toy, there's no need to feel insecure. It can spice things up in bed. It's a good sign that she wants you to be involved.
Actually, I think I'll go buy one. There's several things my man and I can do.....
2007-06-18 02:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Maria V. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahahahaha, im sure your rabbit is good enough. sometimes we like to play. its fun! i heard this rabbit thingy thing is the sh*t. i wouldnt take offense to it unless she stops humping you all together. i heard the rabbit can be just that good. watch out, though.
2007-06-18 02:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...when you masturbate, does it mean that what she has to offer you isn't good enough? Think about the reasons why you indulge in self-pleasure...the reasons may be similar to why your girlfriend decided to buy a toy. (Either that, or she may simply be curious.)
2007-06-18 02:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by sarah314 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so insecure. She already has a shower massager, doesn't she? If she wanted to replace you, you would already be gone. Let her have some recreational fun, and join in once in a while.
2007-06-18 02:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your girl just wants to experience and have fun. I'm sure its not you. If you want to spice it up more help her out with it
2007-06-18 02:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by italiangurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋