When someone passes over, can their spirit be in two places at the same time?

Question

My best friend passed away ten days ago. She is my world, and I have been lost without her. We did not live in the same area of the country and I can't help but wonder if it is even possible for her to be with me and be with her family at the same time? Of course, my spiritual beliefs have been crushed by this- she was taken from us suddenly & I am lost. But even still, I am so worried about her and hope she is okay. I am also worried that she can't be with me and her family at the same time.

I know she knew how much I love her, but I just do not know if it is possible for her to be with her family and with me at the same time since we live thousands of miles apart. Anyone have any ideas on this? Please and thanks.

Answer 1

You are joined by a bond of love that never can be broken, she will always be with you.

There is no time or distance as we know it on the other side. So distance does not matter, she can be with you in an instant as soon as she thinks of you. She will be able to be with you and her family.

Since it sounds as though you were very close I have no doubt that she will give you a sign of her presence.

A feeling, a sound, a sight that only you will recognize.

Open your heart to her and she will be there.

Some times it takes a little while to get settled in on the other side especially if she passed suddenly. Don't loose hope she will be there.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

No, your spirit can only be earthbound or in some branch of heavan. Your friend probably visits you all whenever she can. She can probably travel just by thinking about a place.
( No clumsy legs and feet to trip over or tire out.)

I guess you can talk to her even if you can't see her and maybe she can hear you. It may be possible for her to visit you in a dream.

This grieving process takes time. The only way to get over someone is to get through all the pain. It might help to remember her as if she's gone on a trip and hasn't got back yet. You will meet with her when your time on Earth is through.

You will preserve her when you tell others about her. Don't let the despair make you consider suicide. Grief really hurts but you will recover. Life will never be the same but it will at least feel normal again someday.

Answer 4

I am very, very sorry that you have lost such a clearly loved friend. Life can be so cruel and it is always hardest for those left behind.

I was devastated when my mother died and quite inconsolable (for several years) that she was lost to me forever.

I've learned now though that I was wrong about this. I have an absolute wealth of memories and wisdoms from our time together that I can draw upon which brings me considerable comfort. Often now I feel that she is beside me and I can close my eyes and imagine her response to a situation be it humour, sadness or courage...and i smile

This is what it means for someone to be with you in spirit in which case it is possible for your friend to live in the hearts of all those she touched.

Please do not worry about her, she is far beyond harms reach. Have courage to face the future and honour her memory as best you can...

Good luck x

Answer 5

my mother passed over at midnight on the 18th of September 2014 yesterday in fact,she was 94 years old she had been ill for a few weeks and doing well responding to treatment but it would mean long term care would be needed ,some thing he would hate last Sunday i talked of my late fathers birthday she lost him some 42 years ago but she new he was around her,from Sunday last week she began to go down hill and at midnight last night she passed over and the 18th of September is my late fathers birthday ,at 4 30 in the morning i closed my eye's and saw a bright clouds with head stones standing tall the clouds parted and a hand reached out into the empty space they then closed again and one by one the head stones went out like lights being turned off till there was just clouds and then nothing i was not asleep ,i look after a church yard and make sure the place is tidy and that people who come know everything is being looked after a few months ago the church yard was over grown i went there on the off chance i would find family links and took on the task to clean the place up my son thinks the head stones in the clouds are the spirits of the graves i tend thanking me for the work i do and that my mother is with them and my father ,the church yard has a mystic air about it i knew i had family links there and found some graves but one Friday before going home i found a head stone just under the ground and up side down i cleaned it of dug around it and lifted it up it was from 1870 and as clean as if new but the thing that gave me joy was it was the head stone of a three time's great uncle of mine ,so the spiritual feeling in that church yard that has given me energy to work as hard as i can is the same spiritual energy my Mother found to go on the day to join my father .

Answer 6

I am so sorry, I cry for your loss. Fluffy Wisdom could not have said it better. Read it again. She/he deserves best answer, at least I truly believe so.
Talk to her. When you go to bed, ask her to hold you. you will feel it if you allow yourself to. She is not gone from you, just a little ahead of you. She can come back for you, but you cannot go ahead to be with her. I believe that's the way it works. As she must love you too, she will be there for you for the rest of your life. You will be going where she is soon enough, (I know it feels like forever), and she will be there to guide you HOME. We are All connected. Some of us have stronger love connections. She knows everything now. She will know when u need her, and she will be there, even if you don't know it.
I know when my loved one is with me now. it took me a long time, and i probably miss times that she is here. I can smell her sometimes. I asked her, my grandma, (pause for tears), to be waiting for me when I died. To be at the closest possible point so I could be with her again. I asked her about 20 years ago, she has been gone 5, and my God do I miss her. It will never be alright, but it will get better. I do know that. with that i will stop my friend. email me if you'd like. I would like.

Blessed Be

Answer 7

I think it's the same as the concept of God or the Holy Spirit being everywhere at once. When one dies their spirit leaves their body and goes wherever it goes (depending on one's beliefs). But I don't see why someone could not be in all the places they want to be when they are dead. I'm sure your friend is watching over you and her family from above either way.

Answer 8

I can tell you based on personal experience that your friend of course has not gone! She has merely stepped through the door of eternity. She can't be in two places at once, but you can trust that whenever God sees that you need her, she will be with you. And sometimes, when her family needs her, she will be with her family... but God won't leave you desolate and alone! I know this for certain, because my dad died about three years ago. It was sudden, and unexpected. I have spent many days grieving for him. But I can often tell he's around me... at least some of the day nearly every day. I've even heard his voice and felt him hug me. I had been avoiding going to his church, because that's where he died, and I knew it would double me over in pain and guilt and sadness. I was sitting back where he had his heart attack, fell and died. The more I thought of his death, and how painful it must've been, the more I cried. The more I cried, the more upset I got until I was practically in hysterics. Suddenly, I heard my dad's voice like a shout say, "Teresa, it was NOT like that!!" It was so strong a plea that it instantly stopped my crying in mid sob. And then I looked up, and I saw my dad standing about five or six feet away. He was wearing a white robe, and his hearing aids and glasses were gone. And I could feel his identity, his very heart, who he was, and that his heart was breaking right along with mine, but with great love. I don't know how to say this any differently, but this is how it was. He really still exists. But I would've never thought, even as a believer in God, that this would happen to me. I don't deserve it, and would've never imagined anything like this. But then it happened. And I can tell you that from the experience I have learned that the whole work of heaven, and everyone in it, whether God or Jesus or angels, or people who have died, the whole work of heaven is to help those of us they've left behind here on earth to get through this life, to be encouraged, and to know beyond the shadow of any doubt that you are loved. And that you will never, never be forsaken. Not by your friend, not by Jesus, not by God's holy angels, and not ever by God. Please don't worry about your friend. She will be with her family whenever they need her. And she will be with you whenever you do. If she can't be with you, God will comfort you Himself, or Jesus will, or the angels will. Or any of your loved ones already in heaven. But God will NOT leave you to grieve alone. I will be praying that you see your friend and hear her voice, and that God Himself will introduce Himself to you. Most of all, don't fear. God LOVES you with all of His strength.

Answer 9

Yes.

There is no space, as we understand it; your friend can be and is, all "places" and "times" at once. Her focus would now be on learning how to use her abilities, and how to function in her new environment. So she may not be completely focused with you all the time, but she can send portions of herself to you...it does not matter how far apart you lived.

This is in very simple terms, but the reality is that the love of you and your friend is eternal, because love is all there is.

Answer 10

I'm terribly sorry to hear about your friend. It can be tough. When we pass over to the other side we must realize that there is no concept of time. The laws (natural laws) of this world don't apply necessarily. According to the Bible those in heaven pray for those here on earth. We can ask them to pray for us but we are not to converse with them as we woulds God, just intercessory prayer. I'd pray if I was in your shoes. Pray earnestly for God to give you closer.