Why cant i get a boyfreind?
Whats wrong with me?
Im smart im funny
I like sports.
I'm very easy to like.
I'm preatty.
I'm skinny.
I love hanging out at the movie theater and other places with a guy.
I have short hair.
Blue eyes.
PLease tell me guys if theirs anyhting their that might explain why i dont have a boyfreind or why no one likes me?
2007-06-17 16:35:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I look like my avatar.
2007-06-17 16:39:00 · update #1
You are trying to hard, be happy with yourself and then someone will come along naturally but depending on how old you are it could also be because boys are ******* morons and at younger ages guys need a lot of help so be aggressive.
2007-06-17 16:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by ReconSix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you come across as too anxious!
Try joining a group where there are some guys.
This could be a civic group, a course, theatre, etc.
I say theatre instead of movie, because people mingle.
At intermission you might strike up a conversation.
The oldest classic was the church choir BTW.
That way, you have a common interest presumably.
You're on safe common territory, not a pick-up spot.
You can go out as a group, & get to know each other.
Over time, this can lead to going for a meal/drink.
Start slow & stay low-key, let guys get to know you.
If all those things you say are true, they'll get it.
2007-06-17 23:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to be less picky and go places where you can meet guys your age with same interests.
Do not need to be obvious just be naturally yourself.
Some times we wish to have a boyfriend but some times we rush without paying attention to how they are; so take your time, and be choosy as to date someone who will make you part of his life etc...
I said choosy but not to an extreme because we all have our faults anyways.
2007-06-17 23:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Pandora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first two lines: "What's wrong with me? Why can't I get a boyfriend?" They make you sound desperate. Sorry honey, but guys can smell desperate a mile away and they get turned off. Try acting more like you don't need a boyfriend, and you might find a good guy.
2007-06-17 23:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry! U seem like a nice girl. Someone's bound to come along. Who knows, guys might be intimidated by ur beauty =P
2007-06-17 23:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_young_folk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well star i have to say this because my best friend said this to me maybe the right guy has not come around yet and i can tell you a lot of ppl like you don't worrier.
2007-06-17 23:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
describing yourself just lets people know youre good traits. if you knew youre bad traits you wouldn't be asking this question ask an ex. things that guys hate to talkative, too conservative, domineering and dont listen
2007-06-17 23:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by igotrings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depinds on ur attiude guys like me like girls like u so u may not have a boyfriend who cares theres a fish in the sea for every one
2007-06-17 23:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Cole O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy you are interested in and you make the first move.
2007-06-17 23:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can see wrong with you with THIS information is that mabye your a little prideful? Otherwise i don't know why, you sound nice to me! ^_^
2007-06-17 23:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by foxracer595 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋