yeah this i kinda a lame question. its all with myspace you k now.
but hes got this group with these girls, like singing. not pro or anything just idk. but him and this girl were commenting back n fourth and he was talking bout how he was getting paid and would take her out to get ice cream and then she was said she doesnt have any money then he said we dont need money to have fun do we.
now am i just being paranoid or should i worry? i know im nosey reading his comments n stuff but im kinda worried now. and i don't wannt ask him and be all in his business so im asking you guys. thanks <3
2007-06-17 16:16:59 · 26 answers · asked by asdf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also her comments are hidden so he might have thought i cant see them. if that makes a difference? and also we hangout almost everyday. but he's always been kinda low on details when hes not with me. like who hes with and what their doing. i really like him and i dont wanna break it off. sooooOO idk what else to say or if any of this makes a difference? thanks everyone!
2007-06-17 16:24:12 · update #1
his myspace says hes in a relationship and im fourth on his top friends and this girl is like sixth or something.
and we are pretty serious. i mean only two months but there havent really been anyother problems except people saying we shouldnt be together. but we worked through all that. and i really really like him and it is pretty serious.
2007-06-17 16:55:46 · update #2
This is a matter of trust with your boyfriend, if you don't trust him, I would confront him and if he denies it you should leave. If you do trust him, stay. By snooping around, I would say that you don't trust him and you are looking for an excuse to leave.
2007-06-17 16:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is how serious are you and your boyfriend? If you have a commitment with each other then he shouldn't be flirting with other girls. Does his myspace say that he is in a relationship? or does it say single. There is nothing wrong with talking to other girls but flirting is different if he is in a commited relationship. It could be that you are more serious then he is... Trust is a number one thing in a relationship. It would probably be good to find out that you are both on the same page.
2007-06-17 16:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mbh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is a flirt.Even if he's the nicest guy in the world he is still gonna flirt,maybe unconsciously but he is doing it.If your BF really really loves you then he won't flirt with anyone and maybe that dream you have is just because your jelous!You are soo jelous right now that you even dream your BF is with other girls.You gotta start trusting him.If he really loves you he wont flirt but if he still flirts..dump him.
2016-04-01 02:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few things
1. if you are nosey about him, then usually your gut is telling you not to trust him and investigate. Thats a problem there
2. Yeah, that is really slimy of him to do that and on myspace of all places. You cant do anything about it, but wait til he does something
I'm sorry, but the relationship doesnt seem like it will last much longer. You'll catch him checking a girl out or he'll get mad at you for being suspicious (which you have a good reason for being)
2007-06-17 16:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by PSU840 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't dump him yet.. But it sounds like he's flirting... Which doesn't necessarily mean he would actually do anything...
I really suggest to just ask him about it.. or confront him in some way. If you don't trust him and he doesn't know it... then you're both hiding stuff and it's no good. If you want to save you have to start now... not hope it gets better or wait til it gets worse.
2007-06-17 16:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by statman84032 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel seriously. And I don't know if my answer is good enough, but here's what I think.
I consider that flirting too, though I'm a bit paranoid myself. He may just regard her as a friend, but then again it could be other than that.
I guess you should just calm down first and see how things go for the moment. If he really loves you, he won't hurt you.
Good luck! =))
2007-06-17 16:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by whiteblaq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completely understandable to worry. Just talk to your boyfriend about how you don't like that he takes other girls out for ice cream and how it makes you feel left out and a little jealous. Don't be afraid to say you are jealous, even if you are just a little, because it shows that you make mistakes too. I hope everything works out between you and him!! Good luck!!
2007-06-17 16:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by That Anna Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound sneeky to me. I hate to break it to ya but he may have a slight attraction to this girl, the best thing you can do (I know you don;t want to do this) is confront him and ask him about her, make up a story behind where you got that info, so he dosent think your nosey.
Although, they may just be friends, but take my advice.
2007-06-17 16:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by curtib22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, use girls really dont understnad guys. lol. there so confusing. i would dp the exact thing you did. i would be worried too. but of course if you ask if there cheating on you there going to say no. i would dump him because if he really loves you he wouldnt do that to do. you can find a much better guy out there.
good luck,
katie
2007-06-17 16:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is in the same situation. She wouldn't break it off with him.
But I suggest to break it off. He should've know that he shouldn't be hanging around with other girls. But apparently, he doesn't do that. So he might have lost feelings for you.
Might as well talk to him about it.
2007-06-17 16:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋