We were together 6yrs and got engaged for 1 week and left me for a Bimbo. He doesnt leave me alone and he says she might be pegnant. He asked if I would take him back if shes nocked up.
2007-06-17 15:11:26 · 12 answers · asked by Freebird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't take him back whether she is pregnant or not. That has nothing to do with it. He left you for another woman. He is a loser and you need to move on and find a good guy.
2007-06-17 15:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After six years of a relationship he decides to leave you for a "bimbo" who is now pregant? I don't think her being pregnant is the issue. The question should be why would you take him back after he walked out of your six year relationship to be with another woman?
That kind of behavior is a definite red flag and I would really be concerned that he would do it again. What if after a couple of kids he decides marriage just isn't for him and he goes off with the next bimbo that catches his eye? He's not marriage material and you would do well to leave him with the prego mistress and find a more honorable man who will not treat your relationship like a revolving door.
2007-06-17 15:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of whether he's fathered a child or not, he clearly can't handle commitment and therefore is a terrible candidate for marriage. Ignoring the issue of STD's, the question is whether being "together" without marrying indefinitely is OK with you. If it is, then you might as well take him back. If it's not, then this is a good time to let him go. After 6 years, it seems unlikely he'll change, though he probably talks a good line about making things work.
2007-06-17 15:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi honey,
I hate to break it to you, but don't sell yourself short. Women should learn to value themselves and not let men walk all over us. If she is pregnant and you were together for six years, that probably means he was cheating on you.
He sound like he is a bit immature and doesn't know what he wants. It's up to you to take him back or not, but you set your boundaries. You can let a mistake to go once, but you will have to live fearing that he might do it again. If you think you won't be able to fogive and forget and never bring it up in a relationship, is better to make a clean break.
Goood luck and cheer up. Losing a guy doesn't mean it's the end of the world.
2007-06-17 15:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by lilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Sounds like an ex of mine, only I was the one he knocked up. Without my permission if you get what I mean. The other bachelors who shared a house with him were busting up and moving their separate ways and he needed somewhere to go, so since he was worried about going to jail because of our scenario, he went and hooked up with the other chick he was seein.
2007-06-17 15:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you take him back, you're also taking the bimbo and the baby. Do you want all three?
2007-06-17 15:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by saja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO!!!!!! He's just trying to run from responsibility... I don't think he cares about you either ( sorry just trying to help) He'd probably run back to her if you got pregnant! Find a MAN!
2007-06-17 15:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by QuantumB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no!!! he shouldn't treat you as a last resort
2007-06-17 15:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you said, "No" - I hope!
2007-06-17 15:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by JQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!
2007-06-17 15:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by College Tri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋