i have noticed that when i am rude to women they respond better tward advances. when i am nice they kinda just are amused for a minute then they leave. what do u guys think?
2007-06-17 14:59:45 · 15 answers · asked by David S. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should never be rude to a woman.. its called respect
2007-06-17 15:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is a witty smart-*** that can be amusing and attractive, but rude and indifferent never worked on me. I'd just end up chatting with the nice dork in the Chewbacca t-shirt instead.
2007-06-17 22:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ahni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer to your question is that everything has a limit if you are waaaaaaayyy too nice all the time then yes it is a big turn off. My advice to you is that you should have a balance. However remember to always be a gentleman and respectful. There is nothing hotter than a guy who is a gentleman!!! Good Luck!
2007-06-17 22:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Grisel* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being rude is bad! I say you are better off being nice! Do you want to be rude your whole life? They think whoever is rude they are outstaning, and brave! We all know that you are everything like that when you are respectful! Try your best and Good luck!
Mimi :-)
2007-06-18 06:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the movie Bedazzled, Brendan Frazer charater describes what happes to nice guys.
2007-06-18 01:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a girl, and i say for me and alot of other women that being nice to a guy is a turn on, but being too nice turns us off like a burnt out light switch!
2007-06-17 22:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when boys are nice! Arrogant guys are MAJOR turnoffs!! Try being nice to her then start a conversation and try to keep her to stay talking then maybe get her number.
2007-06-17 22:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Cassandra C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say word! I don't know why it's like that, but it damned sure is. You'll get stuck in the "friend zone" forever, never to be heard from again.
2007-06-17 22:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rude, is probbly, firm: and, nice is naive and kind of sauve! just be yourself, honest and consistent, sincere and mature! Just be a good friend, to begin with!
2007-06-18 00:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basic defect in women is their false vanity.
2007-06-18 01:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love it when guys are nice!! its so sweet instead of just being full of yourself all the time... but yeah you can be too nice then it just gets kinda creepy
2007-06-17 22:07:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋