hey i just wanted to ask a question to all guys (preferably younger, but i don't care) but what is the best way to make a guy want to know me BESIDES doing or wearing any sexual things? like confidence, things to say...
thanks for your help!!
2007-06-17 14:48:05 · 19 answers · asked by lauraloo<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feminine flirting, and be a little mysterious. Most guys want what they can't have, so try and act like you are wanted but not taken. Attracting guys is easy, turning it into love is the complicated thing, and the best way to do that is to attract the right kind of guy.
2007-06-17 14:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you want a man to take interest in you, take an interest in him. Find out what he likes and walk up to him and start a conversation about what he's interested in. "So I heard the Red Sox bombed last night?" "You heard the new Linkin Park album?" Even if you're not interested, this will key him into you.
And PLEASE, don't wear anything "sexual," as you say, to get a guy to notice you. For crying out loud, why do women think this is the only way a guy will notice them? If that's the kind of attention you want, fine, but you sound a little smarter than that. You sound like someone who wants something deeper.
You've got to be fun to be with, and you've got to be easy going. Too many women get too defensive around men, worried they're going to be taken advantage of. You got to learn to keep your guard up, but still act approachable. Just be yourself. But don't think your body is the only thing that matters. A real man is going to notice and care about you for who you are, and anyone else is a jerk you don't need to waste your time with.
2007-06-17 21:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Hitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set yourself down and make out a list of things you do to get attention from guys. Why?
Are the guys a repeat or show promise in your future?
Ask yourself what you see in 5-6 years for yourself. You have to stay focused on the matters that are very important to you. That being said, you are losing a lot of time and precious memories over trying to please everyone except yourself.
Sounds like the people you associate with are users, only because you give them permission to do so.
Get yourself together, hold down a good job, go places where you can meet people that really do carry on good conversations and show a real interest in you, not what you can contribute in bed.
If you do not set boundaries, people have the right to cross the line......aren't you worth more than that?
2007-06-17 22:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by donna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys like smart girls sexy isn't all that nessasary but it don't hurt. I prefer someone to have a decent conversation with. I'm married to a smart gal. She runs around in grubby clothes all the time,but I don't care.
2007-06-17 22:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by ya-who 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be interesting. Dont be boring. Smile alot, that is probably the most thing guys look for is a girl who smiles and is happy. You dont need to wear sexual things, in fact, please dont stoop down to that level.
Be more outgoing, and try to get their attention. Yeah, dress cute, but not revealing and slutty. Good luck.
2007-06-17 21:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he's interested in, and research it.
Bring cookies/brownies that you made.
Listen to same music.
Always be clean, neatly dressed and groomed; don't worry about trends, but wear what flatters you.
Act like your nice, normal self - don't pretend to be something you're not, or giggle continually.
But, after date one, make sure you get some of your likes/dislikes known.
2007-06-17 21:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no use in saying everyone elses lines, if you plan on getting this guy for keeps then he is going to need to like you for you (that is if you plan on keeping him). Lines and sayings are only something that will get a short term reaction.
2007-06-17 21:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a common interst and work from there. Guy's are turned on by women who share their hobbies. Sports, music, pets, etc.
2007-06-17 21:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Develop your own interests, talents, causes, opinions and personality. In other words, become a person worth knowing.
2007-06-17 21:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by nouryture 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him more and see if any of his interest's you like besides those sexual things
2007-06-17 21:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by chris_ittner13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋