I am in the 7th Grade. I have been asked out once but I said no way. What do I do if I like a boy that is kind of popular and he already has a girlfriend. I am technically popular because I am a cheerleader but I don't show it like that. Can you please help me!! I want to have a love life but I can't make it happen!!!! All of my friends have the cutest boyfriends and they are popular too. I just want to be like them. Respond ASAP!!
2007-06-17 14:37:28 · 8 answers · asked by cj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well dont rush, your still young, youll meet a nice guy some day. dont even bother with that guy, all it will be is trouble.just be patient and true love will find you
2007-06-17 14:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by imHereAskMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't 'force' a lovelife - if you do, you will probably wind up with a jerk. Seventh grade is a little young to worry about it.
Be your nice, natural self. Respond to other guys wothout being too flirtatious [ no hanging on them, or repeated touching ]. Don't hit on other girl's guys. [ a date is never worth the loss of a friend. ]
You will have periods of your life without a guy, probably several times. Learn to use the time for something positive.
Improve your grades, work on routines, help at home, volunteer somewhere.
Don't let the prescence or abscence of a boyfriend define your life. People who do this are seldom happy.
You must be happy by yourself before you can be happy with a guy.
2007-06-17 21:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in 7th grade! Give it some time, i am a senior this year. i didn't make out wit someone until the middle of 7th grade, and just cuz ur a cheerleader doesn't make u popular... it's ur personality! Be yourself and see if he likes you! You don't need a love life just yet tho!
2007-06-17 21:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life isn't all about love, God doesn't give everybody a love life, you just have to accept it and move on. your in seventh grade you don't need a boyfriend right now, all you need is to be loved, only the really good boyfriends can give you love. and there are very few of those in seventh grade. I know for a fact that some boys just want a trophy to say to their friends that have a girlfriend. one of my friends had a boyfriend and he was just using her to show off to his buddies, of course my friend was devastated. I have this other friend who has a crush, and he likes her too, but they both know that they are to young to go out so they are going to wait until they are older. That boy is one of the nice boys. so in answer to your question, if you wait long enough and have enough Patience, your love life will come. don't go out and search for it, wait for it to come to you.
2007-06-17 21:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by christi O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in 7th grade just chill out you'll have plenty of time for stuff like that im going into 10th grade and i'm still looking for someone
and just cuz your a cheer leader don't make you popular
maybe thats how it works in movies but not real life
2007-06-17 21:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in 7th grade you shuldnt wory about stuff like that ... at that age u shuld like a diff boy every week thats how it wuz with me n girls and everything turned out alll good
2007-06-17 21:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by jumpshotcap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt a lot, get guys attension and stand out from the crowd. let ppl know who u like and let them "happen" to find out lol good luck!
2007-06-17 21:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by sshroxybabay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahahahahaha you think you don't have a love life?! TRY BEING IN THE SAME SITUATION, BUT IN 4 YEARS OLDER (and not popular)!!!
2007-06-17 21:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋