i've been in sooo many situations where i want something or someone, but it never turns out the way i want it
2007-06-17 14:21:20 · 15 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes we set our expectations too high & they are unreachable. We can have the wrong priorities. We have to learn in life we can't expect everything we wish for. Most of the time you'll find out things happen for a reason, even if we never find out why. And, you'll find out it wasn't meant to be in the first place & later are happy it didn't! Things usually do work out for the best regardless if we don't like it or not.
2007-06-17 14:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sue C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's life! We were all brought into this world the same way. As long as their is sin and bad things in the world then we will always be tempted to want what we can't have. We will always have something good, but think that that something else over there is a lil better. It's the way of the world and the more you wonder it's that way the more time you waste. There's no answer. jsut try to be satisfied with what you have and start a new habit!
2007-06-17 21:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 73 y.o. and have got everything I wanted in my life, including 2 Rolls Royces and my own aeroplane and have started from "scratch" 4 times.
The secret is to set a goal and aim for it , whatever the consequences may be, and do not be deterred by failure
2007-06-18 08:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by apgbah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you had it already you wouldnt want it anymore. And its been psychologically proven that people are never satifstie with what they have. They must always have more no matter what it is either physically or emotionally. Its just a fact of life. Because if one was satisfied and had everything they wanted already there wouldnt be a point in life to try to become better because you already had everything.
2007-06-17 21:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Stephie is here to help 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a typical female for you, the "grass is always greener on the other side" thinking is trouble. You need to shed that before you end up losing it all. Start by being greatful for the things you have, regardless of simplicity.
I normally start with the fact im healthy, i have a roof over my head, i earn enough money to do things, im single free and able to do whatever the hell i want!
Learn to settle for things before you ultimatly destroy yourself
2007-06-17 21:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because your never happy with what you get. Try being happy with something that is similar to what you want and learn that what you think you want may not really be what you want. having everything wont make a person happy if they are alone. Then there is no one to share it with.
2007-06-17 21:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a great sing once said "No, you can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
And if you try sometime you find
You get what you need!" lol anywho's if we could get everything we wanted then life would be boring and then you wouldn't want to fight for anything. if you want it so badly you can't stand it take it fight for it pray for it do whatever it takes and you can achieve anything but if you sit around wishing you wont get shat! so get out there and get it!
2007-06-17 21:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Babycakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just the way life goes
2007-06-17 21:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky Mummy to 2!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes ppl want things that could turn out terrible when something you want comes around try hard to acheive it and be prepared for heartbreak just n case
2007-06-17 21:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by nickname94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's part of life. And then we get over what we want most of the time. n
2007-06-17 21:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋