I have reoccuring dreams about my younger sis, sexual dreams. I have no feelings like that for her. this is frustrating for me. I want them to go away. Why does this happen?
2007-06-17 13:02:27 · 10 answers · asked by Jason S 1 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
You just feel a closeness with her. Don't make a big deal about it. It doesn't mean anything, other than that you think she's cool.
If you let this bother you, you'll end up hating her and it'll cause you all sorts of other problems. Just let it go.
2007-06-17 13:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would seem to me that you must be a young person and this could be at least a partial explanation for these dreams. I would think as long as you do not act on these dreams and impulses that everything will be O.K. and you have nothing to feel guilty about. Perhaps if you feel a desperate need to talk with someone choose a older person you trust and do so.I think this will make you feel better. When I was in my early teens I had some embarrassing dreams myself and you are not alone.
2007-06-17 20:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jason, you might not believe this but those dreams about your sister are the work of a demonic spirit working in your life. I used to have the same dreams for a while. It is not you, but it is a spirit which works to bring confusion into your life. I had a friend along time ago who had the same kinds of dreams about his sister. Only, his dreams affected him to the point where he could not stay in the same room with his sister. He was tormented and crying that he could not thinking about his sister and the dreams. But we prayed over him and the demon that was tormenting him left. What you are dealing with is called a "perverse" spirit. Find someone who is anointed of God who can pray that spirit off of you. Okay, take care.
2007-06-18 21:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by super saiyan 3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow it off as just a dream and don't get upset over it. I'm sure you love your sister, care about her, etc. By the same token, you associate sexual interaction with love, too. The brain just twists them together for a nighttime slide show. Nothing more to it than that. Don't start acting weird around your sister just because of a stupid dream. She'll think you're nuts. And by the way, I don't think I'd mention the dream to her, either. She might start acting weird around you.
2007-06-17 20:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Chris H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality can mean 'closeness' (in terms of you and your sis being really close) and it could also mean availability (we seek to have sex with/bond with people we feel close to, are available to us.)
It sounds like you feel lonely and are reaching out, in the only way your mind knows how right now, to the one person you feel you can trust (sex is also about issues of trust.) It's hard to be close with the 'right' kind of people if we feel scared, insecure and unsure of ourselves.
Also, since you didn't mention your age, it could be that recent ideas about sex have awakened and your mind is simply trying to sort out all the confusion and emotions associated with it. Don't be worried, but I wouldn't suggest going around telling everyone about your dreams either. If you still feel awkward, try talking to a psychologist to see where the emotions of the dream are coming from. They can help you untangle them.
2007-06-18 00:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Khnopff71 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong about what goes on in your mind, however, if you confuse reality then you have a problem. Incest is a cultural reality and you must respect. People who know about dreams have told me that dreams are the contrary to reality. Nothing to worry about. Perhaps, also, you could be reacting to a suggestion made by someone. Or, maybe you are picking up on your sister's vibes, maybe she has fantasies about you. That's nice, be kind and gentle with her, play with her, but remind her, in a gentle way, that you are her big brother and that you will always be around when she needs you for real.
2007-06-17 20:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by puppywimp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many dreams of our sister or brother represent our other self. By listening to our dreams we can work on this unconscious part of ourselves and bring it into our conscious awareness to enrich our waking experiences. When a male dreams of his sister it is suggested that this represents his female side. Your dream is bringing out the repressed female side of yourself. It will probably disappear as you acknowledge and accept the dream.
2007-06-17 20:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by askerwatt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eventually these dreams should stop. But if not, I would contact a counselor or maybe a psychiatrist. (I am not saying that you need mental help) but a psychiatrist should be able tohelp.
2007-06-17 20:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's just a stage it will pass
2007-06-17 20:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by andrew 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats nasty man
2007-06-17 20:06:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋