AAron, the guys name, seems like a player. i have his #, but i dont want to call and seem desprate, but i dont want to be his booty call. i feel like a skank and im really not like that. im not really sure what to do about it! HELP
2007-06-17 12:45:49 · 27 answers · asked by wicked Chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many girls think they'll seem desperate but we don't think that way. We see it as, awesome this girl likes me or is interested. He will be happy that you called him. Do it, just spark a conversation. Don't even bring up the fact that y'all even kissed. Just talk. Also I've seen girls waste a good oppurtunity at a relationship in thinking, the guy must call first. The guy starts to think you're not interested if you don't try some what. so take a chance but also be safe about it.
2007-06-17 12:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel like a skank? There are two scenarios that could be happening here, number one is that you are over reacting and you need to give him time to call you etc. Number two is that he just used you for one thing. The best thing to do in this situation is to act like you don't care and if he calls you just act like you have totally forgotten who he is and DO NOT make out with him ever again - make him regret using you.
2007-06-17 19:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off its good you dont wanna seem to be the skank, thats truly become a rare quality in a girl these days, i would call just to talk to him you know, build a base of knowledge about this guy, and then make, a decision from there
2007-06-17 19:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by TrybalFreek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't call him. an if you don't wanna be a booty call, then insist he treat you right, not be callin' in the night.
besides, what makes a woman a "skank"? doing the same thing that men do??? who cares. i say women can use men just as well without all this nonsensical judgement. just be smart and use protection.
you're only bad if you're not true to yourself.
2007-06-17 19:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally you make out with a guy and your happy, you seem to be worried too much. Besides you cant be a "skank" so to speak if you still got your V plates, and even if you lose them it takes a fair bit of "that" to be classed as one.
Just chill out, if the guys a player you can dropkick his **** he would be used to that anyway, But if you let your superstisions get in the way of a good relationship with a good guy your going to kick yourself!
2007-06-17 19:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dang girl calm down all you did is make out with him how does that make you a skank? he is only a player if you allow him to play you!! the ball is in your court!! and as far as being a booty call that is your call!! tread lightly
2007-06-17 19:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by notyochic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey the most you can do is call the guy but if you get the feeling he's a player don't get involved unless you are better at the game than him because you'll just get hurt.
2007-06-17 19:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait a couple of days and then call him not to seem desperate!
u aint a skank dont worry!!!!!!!!!if u start sleeping around with a couple of guys then u should start to worry!
talk to the guy and see how he is b4 judging him and stuff cuz maybe he is a nice guy!
good luck!
2007-06-17 19:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by starstar_bam_24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few days, maybe 2, then act normal and call him.
Try not to make the same mistake again.
:)
2007-06-17 19:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by da geeky freak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a day or 2..an call him. If you don't want to be his booty call...don't give him the booty....
2007-06-17 19:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by Monique 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋