i walked in on my girlfriend and she had her pants off in bed with another guy. But, when i asked her she said she was just trying on clothes with a male friend....do u think she was really cheating on me?
2007-06-17 12:36:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude wake up and smell the coffee, is she cheating on you. Let me tell you a story. Once upon a time I was caught in the same situation as the other guy. Her boyfriend walked in on me. She was putting her clothes back on because she heard him coming in (that's you). I already had mine back on so he took the same position that you took. But I had did my do and got out of there. Guess what! later on that day she called me and said guess what? He's to dumb to even realize what had gone on. I asked her how did she get out of it. She said I just did the do with him and everything mellowed out. Think about it, I bet your girl did the same thing. Better get a check up and move on, because he's not the only one, just the one you caught. Remember love can be a triangle, but a triangle can't be love. Do you really want to share like that. To many diseases in the world today. I bet you didn't even use protection.
2007-06-18 15:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tom Thumb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive anything if you wish. Everything is forgivable. But, living together isn't all it's cracked up to be. Keep separate apartments and renew your friendship remaining balanced emotionally, if you wish. Whatever she did was not about you; it was about her. Do not base your life on a relationship or romance. Make out a list of what is most important to you. Remember how you were before hormones ruled your thoughts. You'll be that way again someday in your vintage years. Think what you would like to see about your life path when you are that elderly gentleman. Think about what you wanted as a young boy. All of those aspects are within you now. Pretend that you are conversing with that boy and that vintage gentleman. See what they would advise you to do. They are probably the more stable parts of you because they don't have to make their decisions based on sex. Get lost in an online video game that takes up all your free time if you can't think of anything else to keep you from going crazy. There are lots of ways to get through this. Regardless of what you do, stand from a position of integrity and personal power.
2016-05-18 01:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sory but definetley.What an excuse, you know really that she was otherwise you wouldnt be asking this question and pondering over it, analysing it. You just dont want to admit she was and lose her but believe me there are bigger and better people out there who wouldnt do that in the first place and if they did would have some guts and decentsy to admit it when you saw it with your own eyes. Right now you need to open them really wide and really think about what happened and the future and move on before you get hurt even more.
Good luck and chin up.
2007-06-17 12:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-06-17 14:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by sweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but yes. She could have tried clothes on in the bathroom, or had the guy leave the bedroom while she was changing. Sorry bro.
2007-06-17 12:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by Hitch™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had her pants off int he bed. I would have asked her why they had to do it inthe bed. I think she is thinking that you are dumb. I would have to say that yes she is cheating on you.
2007-06-17 12:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude make her walk in on you just doing that
2007-06-17 12:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg lololololololol Noo everything is cool.
2007-06-17 12:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really bugs me that we have the same hairstyle and you're asking this question. Dude, what are you thinking??? Of course she's cheating on your a-s-s if you catch her in bed with another man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-17 12:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by webhead28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend must be related to Pinocchio.
2007-06-18 08:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋