i love someone so much but i know she does'nt love me so will i tell her and just live my life or will i leave it and let us enjoy a good friendship??????
2007-06-17 12:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok but just one problem. shes german and i'm irish. we met on an exchange and i only have simple german so.....
2007-06-17 12:42:40 · update #1
tell her and get it overwith. trust me on this advice because this is the subject i am best at. you need to tell her how you feel or it will just be bottled up inside of you and you will feel even worse then you do now knowing that you never told her how you feel! you will be stuck. GO FOR IT DUDE!!!!
2007-06-17 12:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by nik t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it so you don't ruin a good friendship because if you tell the person about your feelings knowing that they aren't mutual then it is going to get weird and things will never be the same.
2007-06-17 12:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by teddygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, does your love for her interrupt getting anyone else, because you dont want to spend an eternity chasing your tail. If it is you will need to learn to either say it to her and see how she feels. If she says no then just forget about her and move on, she is a waste of your love if she cant recipicate.
But if you can be her friend and still persue love interests then it can work, you can go to her for advice about love and she can help you with sensitive love issues.
Better to have loved and lost I guess, just dont go investing all your self in her if she isnt going to love you back
2007-06-17 12:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A life of Pain is better than a life of Regret
2007-06-17 12:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno.. i honestly don't consider it to be love unless its equal between two people. first just ask her what she considers the relationship to be between the two of you, then ask where she thinks its going. you'll know then whether or not to tell her how you feel. even if she doesnt like you, you sound like you're going to have a long time to find someone that really loves you, even if she doesnt. it hurts alot when you like someone and they dont like you, but you just need to try to move on if its not going to go anywhere.
2007-06-17 12:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really should find out if she like u first cause if she doesnt it will be an akward situation and i know u wouldnt want to ruin yall friend ship so u should see if she likes u first and if she doesnt jus tell her u still wanna be friends
2007-06-17 12:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by jassiemgarcia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her this is something you don't want to spend the rest of your life regretting what is the worst thing that can happen? she will say she doesn't feel the same either way what have you lost?
2007-06-17 12:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she doesn't love you?
Don't ruin your friendship...be honest.
2007-06-17 12:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE DOESNT HAVE TO LOVE U!
ASK HER OUT. MABY SHE WILL GIVE YOU A CHANCE
i GAVE MY BF(WELL EX NOW) A CHANCE
2007-06-17 12:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it.
if she doesn't know it won't change her. telling her will. and not for the better
2007-06-17 12:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by MrFlibble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋