But when it comes to real life, Im at a loss. I can never find the right words at the right time?
2007-06-17 12:16:34 · 11 answers · asked by ChAtMaN 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just because you are at a loss for words when you talk to people, does not mean that you are not intelligent or not worthy of conversation. U just might be shy or afraid of confrontations in general.
I consider this forum a good idea to stretch your imagination, dig down deep and say it like it really is.
You are not inhibited in any shape-form-or fashion here, so just be yourself and do what comes naturally.
People love it when you give them your undivided attention and give the gift of yourself.
I love doing it cause of that old saying "Been there-done that". Wisdom is the best knowedge anyone can share. Keep up the good work and don't be afraid of anything.
2007-06-17 12:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by donna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to answer questions here because you are not facing a person. You are facing a computer. You are not threatened, under any pressure, and you are answering in your time. It's great that you can help people with your answers. You may be shy around others . Don't be afraid to speak out whent the time is right. You are doing a great thing by helping others with your answers.
2007-06-17 19:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because on here, you have time to analyze your thoughts and words before posting...you don't even have to post if you don't want. But in real life, you have to think on the spot and your thoughts can get jumbled and not come out the way you wanted them. I've been in so many situations where I've gone back and thought, "Dang! I should've said THAT," or, "I wish I had done THAT instead!"
Don't worry, though; it happens to all of us.
2007-06-17 19:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by kraezee23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that your an outsider who is not affcted by any of the outcomes here.
Its also possible that you only choose to answer questions you can answer. There are thousands and thousands of questions asked on here every day. You go through them and only answer the ones your capable of answering. Chances are you are only truely answering less than 1/100th of a percent of the new questions on here daily.
2007-06-17 19:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are online, people seem to ask questions that are very easy to answer. The only reason they ask the questions is to get other peoples points of view. Also, questions are more easily answered when they are not forced.
2007-06-18 20:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy answer - because I have no clue who you are, just like you have no clue who I am. Which means the chances of your friends or whoever giving you an honest answer are a lot less than a stranger who is non-bias.
2007-06-17 19:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by Cricket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always easier to write what you feel but is often hard to express/speak what you feel. It is just a matter of making up your mind and thinking before you speak.
2007-06-17 19:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its easier-when you are not-face to face- just like writing a letter- l like your question an answers-lol.
2007-06-18 11:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lot easier when your ego and emotions aren't involved :-)
2007-06-17 19:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easier to give advice on-line then in a person to person situation
2007-06-17 19:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by kev l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋