Im in a bit of a tangle..i met a guy who was having sumn with my friend(no sex between them)thru my friend, and now ive slept with him..i fell for him and im regretting it dearly!!should i tell my friend or let it slide?? and by the way, she was cheating on him when i slept with him!!!
2007-06-17 11:39:50 · 9 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its always better to tell the truth even if it hurts. Coming clean would be the responsible thing to do.If she was cheating on him as well I dont see why she would be that angry about it. True it wasnt the right thing to do, but whats done is done. Do somethings that will ease the stress, like go to movie, do a hobby that you enjoy, hang out with some close friends or family. If she wont forgive you, then you are the better person for owning up to what you did. Forget about this guy.Then you can move on and enjoy your life and meet a nice guy that is right and deserving of you.
2007-06-17 11:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by blue_1534 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are screwed. I guess it depends on how good your friendship is. My friend and I are in a similar situation but I only talked to the guy she liked. I told her and she hasn't talked to me in 4 weeks. You need to find out if your friend really likes this guy...I'm guessing with her cheating on him she doesn't. If she breaks up with him you could always ask her what she thought about you calling him. I would let the part about you already sleeping with him slide for right now. Hopefully you can convince the guy to not tell the friend either.
2007-06-17 11:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by KDJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im gessing ur a girl...1) y r u regreting it? 2) id tell ur friend ,only if him/her is a vary understanding friend b/c in a sertant point of veiw u just hooked up with a guy who has/had a girl( not good ) 3) tel him about her, and if he brings up the u sleeping with him thing ( he brobly wont but just in case ) complytly agree you shuld have not done that, trust me...
2007-06-17 11:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by mr.info 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a really good friend of yours, I think you should. Just so things aren't akward..if they're over, she'll probably be fine. But she cheated on him.
by telling her, you're taking a big risk...be careful with your wording, make sure you know she'll probably feel a little betrayed.
2007-06-17 11:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lor*n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you really need to tell your friend don't care if if yall ain't close or not she need to know. Not cause she was cheatin on him and i hope you ain't use that to sleep with your friend man if you did that you was wrong. Say if your friend was to sleep with your man how would you feel don't do things to other what you don't want them do to you. So please tell your friend what went down with you and your boyfriend before it get to late. ok
2007-06-17 11:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetsexy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all deserve each other.sounds like an orgy to me.wants some AWSOME ADVISE,if your young it will go over your head.
take this to your grave remembering.
WOMEN GIVE SEX TO GET LOVE. MEN GIVE LOVE TO GET SEX.thats why women not men are hurt the most in realationships.
2007-06-17 11:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by ronbo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She deserves it.What goes around comes back around.Don't tell her you slept with him,let her find out by herself.
2007-06-17 11:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both sl-ts.
2007-06-17 11:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very confusing
2007-06-17 11:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋