Ladies only!!!?

Question

A question for the ladies? My ex and I have been broken up for a year. Within that time she has meet someone else and fell in love with him but for the past two weeks they have been broken up. Thats around the time we began to talk again. This weekend she she invitied me to a gathering I told her no at least 20 times cause I still love her and I cant be around her but I gave in and said yes and went to go see her. While in her company she found out that her ex took a another girl to a function. She wasnt happy. She asked me to stay the night I said no 15 times but I gave in and stayed. After getting a room she began to ask me for a hug again I said no several times but one thing lead to another. The question I have is that she told me that she dosent want a relationship she just wants a friend but I want her back so how do I get her back. We were togehter for 3 years. Ladies why you cheat on your new ex for you old ex?

Answer 1

I really think you should forget about this lady, otherwise you are going to end up very hurt all over again. I feel she is just using you because her ex has given her a taste of her own medicine and she didn't like it. If she truly loved you, she wouldn't of left you in the first place?. There"s an old golden rule in life and that is "Never go back to what was, because it never works out". Always move forward in life. Cheers and good luck.

Answer 2

Stay away!

I have been in your shoes, my friend. It's an unreal feeling to be back with the ex who you still want. But you're not doing yourself -- or her -- any favors!


This girl is so confused about what she wants, and she's digging her hole much deeper by involving you, an ex-boyfriend of all people.

If you hope to get back together someday, give her space now. She needs to sort out her feelings for her most recent ex-boyfriend before she can even begin to commit to somebody else.

Bottom line: You need to be strong, stop giving in to what she wants and look out for yourself.

Answer 3

it all depends on the woman. Personally because i have hung around guys most of my life I know that guys go through alot of pain once they get out of a relationship with a person so i feel bad if i break up with them.

If you really love her and she just says she doesnt want a relationship it could just be that shes playing hard to get but i dont know

Good luck with your decision =)

Answer 4

jezze I jus goin through a break up now me and my boyfriend were togeher for 3 years to well i know she still has feelings for u why u out of everybody did she ask for u to stay the night i say be straight up honest with her i mean really be honest tell her everything how u feel i promise u won't get hurt because from wat it sounds like she wants u to she jus don't want to be the one to pursue it so be the man and pursue it good luck

Answer 5

Mature ladies don't do that. She doesn't seem to love you in that special way anymore. She has fallen to jealousy and "needs" to hurt somebody else, in this case you, so that maybe her new ex'll feel pain. Move on dude, unless you HAVE to be with this chick to be happy.

Answer 6

She's treating you like an old pair of comfortable slippers. She'll throw you back in the cupboard when she sees some shiny new ones she likes.

Answer 7

well not all women are the samee. sounds like your ex was jealous and used you as a friend with benefits.

Answer 8

Can't explain that, because I really wouldn't do that to someone. I would talk with her about it .

I would have walked away, if that was me.

Answer 9

I've never cheated in the 30 years I was married!!

Answer 10

don't get to happy she is just trying to get back at him. Trust me.