there's this guy and he hangs out with me and my friends, i'm new to the group, b/c we just moved here. but he one of my friends older brother, (but i don't know the little brother very well) i catch him looking at me ALOT! and like we are pretty much glancing at each other. i'm in 10 grade, and he just graduated last year. i really like him, and he might like me, b/c he sits by me and talks to me and stuff a whole lot...please don't tell me to just say "hey, i like you" b/c i won't do it, no matter how many people tell me to, i just can't do it....so please give me advice on how to let him know i like him, w/o being a s l u t or just coming out and saying it.
thanks a bunch!
2007-06-17 10:28:02 · 11 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's really sweet from what i can tell, and trust me, i won't have sex with him!!!
2007-06-17 10:38:03 · update #1
well if the feeling yous have for eachother is mutal then it will come natural im also in 10th grade and my bf is in college for two years weve known eacother for many years and hes fine with us dating we donteven have sex hes jus overall a great guy and has a couple of plusses because hes fine and has great body!!! well yeaa everything shod all work out
2007-06-17 10:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you don't say 'hey, I like you'. That would look and sound too desperate. Smile at him whenever you catch him checking you out. Then if he still won't make the first move just go over and talk to him. Introduce yourself and say you're new in the neighborhood and that you're trying to meet some cool new peeps. That's a great way to get a conversation started. If you're not willing to approach him and he's not willing to approach you, then nothing is ever going to happen because it would mean that neither of you are mature enough to start any type of relationship anyway.
2007-06-17 17:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by webhead28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the only answer to give you is to grow up. If you aren't mature enough to tell someone how you feel you shouldn't be with them anyways.
When I was in high school I had a crush on a guy and only told him in a letter that I made someone else give him. I never spoke to him or really told him how I felt. 9 months later he was murdered and I will never be able to talk to him. YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE SO ENJOY IT NOW!!! Just tell him you want to go out with him and get on with it!
2007-06-17 17:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you i guess you could just try smiling when he glances at you and keep eye contact but turn away after a couple seconds. Sit or stand close to him and just talk with him alot. Still i would suggest just telling him you like him and keep in mind if he has sex with you its illegal.
2007-06-17 17:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Florida Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep hanging out and talking to him. If he likes you he will ask you out on a date eventually.
Big hint though:
Don't wait. Never wait for a guy.
2007-06-17 17:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only do it if you think he's a nice decent guy, and isn't trying to get into your pants. You have to be careful with most college guys because they arent the nicest/best men to date.
2007-06-17 17:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him to hang out with you and your "friends." you might be able to get a better idea if he likes you, plus our friends can give input on whether or not they picked up anything.
2007-06-17 17:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by Shopgirl2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in 10th grade and he's already graduated, he's too old for you.
2007-06-17 17:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you.
2007-06-17 17:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by m a c y ` s . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an email.
2007-06-17 17:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋