well i have known him for 2 years and he is my neighbor and i really like him a lot....well last sunday we kindof did it and now he hasnt called or anything cuz his parents suspected that we did it and he told them that we didnt. and his mom said that she would tell my mom if she ever found out that we did it, well i dnt think that we r dating any more but how do i get him to go bak out with me. he said that we can date again when everything dies down. but i really like this guy so how can i convence him to go bak out with me? what shld i do? i lost my virginity to him!!! and he also said that the last thing he wanted was for me to get into trouble for doin it with him. what should i do please help me!
2007-06-17 10:25:06 · 10 answers · asked by xjenniloux :] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Kind of did it"? You either did, or did not. Can't you tell?
2007-06-17 10:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Humpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're very young so don't worry there is plenty of time you just need to wait it out. Also if the punishment here is your mom finding out you should just tell her yourself. It will make you feel better. Not to mention you need to start going to the gyno every year now and your mom will probably have to take you.
But if you really want to be with him and no one else then all you can do is wait till he's ready to be in a relationship.
2007-06-17 10:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could his mom have found out? Did she approach you with this information? Or are you just going off of what he is saying? Because to me it sounds like he might just be brushing you off. I hate to say this but it sounds as if he got what he wanted and now he's going on with his life. So maybe you should just str8 up ask him what the hell is going on? U may not like the answer he gives you but at least you'll have the truth.
2007-06-17 10:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by jacarig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should try an talk 2 him wen his parents ain't around an if that doesn't work have a friend that u can trust tell him or pass on a note saying how u feel........ but it seems he really likes u because he is protecting u from getting in trouble
2007-06-17 10:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way his mom ever could find out unless you were pregnant or something, lol, just go along with that.
2007-06-17 10:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by Hockey_Babe_Forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now i know you feel in love because he was your first but if he really wants you he will come back without you doing anything. if you bug him too much about dating hes not gonna like it.
2007-06-17 10:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up and be a man, you"re pregnant ! Then laugh and say no I"m not but you still need to grow up and love me too !
2007-06-17 10:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well so far U GUYS R ALITTLE STUPID FOR DOIN IT B4 UR MARRIED. and 2. all he wants to do is protect u bcuz if u get in troble, u wont b able to c him anymore ( as punishment ) i reomend do what he says, also tell him how u feel.
2007-06-17 10:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by cutegirl67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he's going to get back with you when things die down, so that means he wants to get back with you. Don't rush things, and you'll be good.
2007-06-17 10:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ares 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok tell your mom and she will be understanding... because if your mom finds out and you didnt tell her then she will be really mad.... tell his mom... and tell him how you really feel and that should do it.....
2007-06-17 10:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by sexyasianplyr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋