My husband died a year ago today and it's been a hard day. We were only married six years and he died very suddenly. He was a great guy, with a brilliant sense of humour, a sweet and gentle heart, the longest legs and the best cuddle in the world. I miss him.
2007-06-17 10:09:38 · 55 answers · asked by lix 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Awww! *huggles* I can't even imagine how that feels! I'm soo sorry though, thats a horrible thing to happen. If I could, I'd send you roses and chocolate as well as hug you darling (they always cheer me up). Try to keep your head up and smile like you mean it though, even just pretending that you're okay will help you feel better, I promise. But at the same time, don't hesitate to cry your eyes out, because you have all the reason in the world to. *huggles again* I hope you feel better soon sweetie! Much love,
~!*Mr. Izzy Fabulous: Diva in Training*!~
2007-06-17 10:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss but so glad for your good memories. He will always be in your heart and part of you. My Sister was the last in the family to get married in her late 40's and the first widowed after only two years. She has to face it twice each year because he passed on Easter which was also the 29th of March or April. The best news I can tell you is that it is not a forever good-bye, but, I'll see ya later at the ressurection. Thessalonians...May God richly bless you. Mmm
2007-06-17 18:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A brilliant sense of humour and a gentle heart are a terrific combination. And good cuddles are priceless. Very sorry for your loss, and sending a big, cosmic hug and cuddle from my heart to yours.
2007-06-17 11:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by buddhamonkeyboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*Hug*
I lost my father 9 years ago, so I know what it's like to pass such an anniversary. I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
It's wonderful that you and your husband had those years together. It's clear that you had a very loving relationship. Not many people find that kind of love. Savour the pleasant memories you're so lucky to have. Take care.
2007-06-17 10:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bonnie Buttons 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry, of course you miss him. I give you a big hug, and I will send you some good vibrations and some peaceful thoughts through the air and over the sea. Don`t worry- be happy. Your time will come again, and you are not alone! Peace and love from Norway
2007-06-17 10:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by thefallen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
BIG HUGS
i understand believe me i too lost a husband 9 years ago. i know exactly how you feel.... it will get easier with time i promise. i was left to raise our son who was only 16 months at the time. i really do feel your pain and i am so sorry for your loss. hold on to the memories that you have and you shall become a very strong person. you will be in our prayers as well. if you need to talk feel free to e-mail me anytime.
2007-06-17 12:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by TA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is my hug. You have your life to live. You have your memories. it is a wonderful that you have had an opportunity to be married to him for 6 years. That is great. I am sure you will always miss him. Many people have not experienced the love you had. Embrace those memories.
2007-06-17 11:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ulrika 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
((((Hugs))))
There isn't much I can say because I can't change anything. Just that you are not alone in the world and I am sure anyone with any heart would give you a big hug in real life if you said out loud what you just wrote on here x
2007-06-17 10:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by tickle me emo 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. This is a milestone for you today. You have survived one year alone now. That speaks loads about you. It's never easy when the anniversary of a death comes around. It does get better with each passing year. Someday, you will find another wonderful man and will be happy again. Do you have some friends you can hang out with today? You need a little companionship today.
((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))
2007-06-17 10:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Soul Shaper 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Bless your heart my friend. I too have lost loved ones, it is never an easy thing. In my faith, mortality is but a temporary thing, the spirit lives forever. Love like the spirit transcends mortality. So, perhaps, he is there with you now, wishing he could ease your pain. I wish you well and hope you can find peace.
Fenix
2007-06-17 10:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Fenix 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋