Who NEVER dated or had a bf or gf in middle school and high school?

Question

If you NEVER had a bf or gf in middle school and high school please answer my questions.

1.) Did you finally get a bf or gf and if you did how old were you?
2.) Did your bf or gf not want to be with you because you never had a relationship before? What did he/she say about that you not having a relationship before?
3.) Does not dating in MS and HS affect your dating later on?
4.) Did any of your family and friends make fun of you or call you lesbian/gay because you didn't date?

Answer 1

YES! I never dated in middle or high school.
I kind of wanted to just so I could have somebody and guys would ask me out, but I didn't want to settle for anyone and I decided I liked being single and not obligated to anyone.
I didn't have my first kiss until I was 18 and that was with my first boyfriend...but it didn't last long.
I am almost 20 and I have been kind of seeing someone, but I don't see it working out.
So officially, I still don't consider myself of ever having a boyfriend. I am very actively searching and want a boyfriend, but I still do not and will not settle.
When I tell people that they usually don't believe me or think it is cute.
There are some people I have heard about who want girls with lots of experience and won't date them if they haven't. I have not met someone like that yet but if I did, I would not get involved with them anyway because I don't want to be pressured into anything.
I went through a couple of periods where I was depressed about not having a boyfriend, but now I am really okay with it because I know I am good looking and a good person inside so it's kind of like a fun adventure right now looking for that "lucky guy".
Not dating in MS or HS...I never thought it effected me, but maybe it has. Now that I think about it, it made me more responsible and I was able to rely on myself and become very self sufficient. I built up my self esteem and confidence on my own and I think I remained more mature than a lot of my peers. It allowed me to focus on school and just having fun and I am glad I didn't get caught up in it.
I realized I wrote probably too much, but to make it short: nobody has ever made fun of me, I think I benefited from remaining single and I still have not had an official boyfriend and nobody thought I was a lesbian because I was in fact boy crazy, but I was just smart about it.
I hope you find your lucky guy when the time is right and I hope you are able to see how beautiful you are and how much you have to offer.

Answer 2

I didn't date in highschool only because I just didn't want a girlfriend at the time and I wasn't really interested in the girls that were at my highschool. There was nothing unique or different about them that I liked. I'm not trying to sound cocky or anything, but I knew that I could probably go out with any girl if I asked but I didn't. I'm not a ugly person whatsoever, most girls think I'm good looking. I do think that the lack of my relationships might prevent me from having a girlfriend in the future but I don't care, and the number of relationships someone have had should have nothing do with if they are experienced enough are not. Experience should not be a factor in a relationship, but the person. Also, there are some people out there that just has to have a bf or gf and feel like they aren't "complete" without someone. To me, those people are weak.

Answer 3

no i had a few dates but most of the guys turned out to be jerks so it didnt last ling no more than 1 date per guy

#1 i still dont have a bf but am looking

they were jerks so #2 didnt matter much

not really #3 the right one comes when the right one comes i am more mature and feel more respect for myself for not dating and getting serious when i was real young as most of the people whom i knew that did get serious also had kids at 16 etc
#4 no they would never do that or they wouldnt really be family now would they ? people who love you never do that sort of thing

i am waiting for the right guy and dont want to waste my time on jerks -- cant really blame me -- and i know when God sends me that special some one it will really be a great time in my life because i waiting for him to come into my life and find me -- God Bless and good luck -- be patient it will happen but in the mean time respect your self any one who doesnt then stay away from him

Answer 4

I never dated in Jr. high or high school, that was in the 70's though. but things are still the same, I'm a guy and i did and still do not see the point in it. if you want to be with the other sex go in groups. I was involved in a church youth group and we did a lot of stuff as a large group. It is a great and safe way to spend time with the others and not get into temptation or trouble ang

Answer 5

1) Yes, I was 19 and in college.

2) My bf didn't care, in fact, he never asked

3) No, but I would caution you against having sex too soon. At 19 I did and it was a disaster when when we broke up.

4) Some of my friends in HS made little comments but they never called be gay. I didn't care though because I was having too much fun not having to deal with all the gossip and drama the other girls were having...not to mention the pregnancy scares.

Answer 6

i never had a boyfriend in high school but it really didn't bother me any. i was always different when it came to relationships than other people. i didn't see the point in starting a relationship with someone when i knew it wasn't going to work out. i did get a boyfriend after high school. actually, there were 2 guys before my fiance. my fiance really didn't care that i didn't date in high school. it didn't change his view of me at all. and no, it didn't affect my dating later on. and my family never really cared when it came to me and dating.

Answer 7

I never dated when I was in High School.

Answer 8

My brother never had a girl friend in middle school now he almost always has a girl friend, you will get more attractive as you get older.

Answer 9

i was 18 when i went out whit a guy for the first time, belive me it is better to wait, i wish i did. and what kind of frends/family do you have?

Answer 10

not me. i've dated gurls plenty of times