I really like this guy. hes very good looking and is very sweet but my parents doesnt let me go out with him jus cause his race id different than mine. I really want to go out with him this saturday. what can i do?
2007-06-17 09:35:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bring the guy over to the house to meet your parents. Let them get to know the same nice guy you see in him. If he truly is a nice guy, they will see it.
2007-06-17 09:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie to them about going out with him say your going to the dance with some friends. If they don't fall for it then ask can you go over your friend house but don't make it to obvious that your not really going to a friend's house. Also tell them that it's not fair that you can't go out with a guy just because his race and that your getting around that age where you should be allowed to date anyway you want to in your age bracket.
2007-06-17 09:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by tristan wilds me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your parents how much you really like him and unfair it is to you to know let you attend the invite just because he is of a different race! So hope for the best! Good Luck
2007-06-17 09:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Honeysuckle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents may be just a little old-fashioned, and a little more racist than most. So talk to them again about it, sit down and have a serious chat. Tell them you really like this guy, and you really don't understand why they have to be this way. Tell them things have changed since they were kids, and now, people are more open. :)
2007-06-17 09:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 09:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if i was in your situation i would NOT go behind your rents back they always catch you... i am also 16 female and i have the same issues i just tell my rents to shut up and listen, explain the problem and have them respond if they say yes great do it if they say no well keep begging i guess or go anyway
2007-06-17 09:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey I don't listen to my parents about dating who and I'm usually the smart and kind person in the family who always listens
besides eventually you'll have to grow up and know what's best for yourself whether what your parents say is right or wrong
2007-06-17 09:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by FearMyBroccoli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geee, this is a tough one. My answer might not help right now, but just remember that you have a mind of your own.
2007-06-17 09:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are under your parents authority until you are 18. You will have to respect their wishes until then.
2007-06-17 09:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's awful! who cares about race?! tell them it' your life and you're old enough to make this decision on your own. good luck ;)
2007-06-17 09:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋