Am i being to concerened?????

Question

My son just started daycare and he likes his teacher but the aide he doesnt and i feel my child know his like an dislikes....i was kneeling down by my son for his mornig snack while at the table and decided to get up and leave... well of coarse he follows me ...his aide sees this and soon as he sees her he ran so fast back to his chair as if he was terriffied of her...coarse i took notice....i mentioned this to my mom and she said look at his body when he gets home...and i did....to my surprise i see lil what looks to me like pinch marks....they are on his back and left leg about six of them and i compared them to his maquisto bite and they didnt look the same this look like as if you had a lil sore and it healed then it looks all srunchy after it heals differnet from the rest of your skin...... do you think i should look into this more if so .....where do i began because i dont want to offend her if its not the case but where else would they come from???????? any suggestions

Answer 1

Yes it sounds like something to be concerned with. When mine were little and in day care I would pull a surprize on them. Drop them off just like normal day and I was going to work. Of course I had the day off for some reason. Spend and hr or two doing what I needed. Then I would show back up and march right past the front counter and stop and watch threw the class room window. I caught one lady screaming at the little ones that were bearly able to walk and of course were pulling on a few things. I did not have to say a word, just gave the manager a look because she had run after me and was standing right next to me. She called another lady and put her in that room and pulled the screamer out.

You would not approach her but would go to the manager. Saying you can prove nothing but here is the concern. You take pictures of your son and then after school do it again and tell the manager you are doing this. If there is a problem they cant afford the law suit so they will watch and correct it. Also watch your son and see if he has a hard time walking, if swatted on the bottom of the feet it may not bruse but they will be sore and hurt.

She could be a great person but may have been in that room to long and need a change. Over stressing and not able to think correctly. But when it is your child it does not matter, they need to be created correctly.

Keep in mind that some kids will also pinch at that age and you just may have one of those in the class. You can ask your son to see what he says. But he may have been told to say this or that.

Are there cameras in the class room, many do for there own protection. If yes then demand to review the tapes.

I am normaly pretty mild and let many things slide off my back. But I will not when it comes to my children, I will become there biggest nightmare if that happens.

Hugs Kim Lynn

Answer 2

If it is your gut feeling to look into this further, then do so. A mother's first instinct is usually the best.

However, do this carefully and sensitively. Don't ask your son any questions that can be construed as being misleading and don't lead him in any questioning that he might pick up on and repeat because he thinks what you are asking him is true. In fact, don't ask him anything,

If your son has just started, then I presume that you are getting detailed feedback from the people looking after him as to how he is settling in. Maybe you could have a chat with the main teacher to raise your fears - even if it's just to comment on the strange marks that your son came home from nursery with. There could be a plausible explanation for these - they could even have come from another child as biting / scratching and pinching is a phase that some children go through. So don't accuse - yet!

Good luck!

Answer 3

Trust your gut, talk to the teacher in private if you can or even the director of the daycare. If you feel your child is not getting the best care that you think he should get pull him and find another center. I have had to do this two times. Now my daughter is in a daycare that I fell good about. Also inspect your child before you leave the property and if there is anything on his body that they havn't told you about then question them. I know anytime another child has scrached, bit, or hit my child I have been told aobut it. Make sure you ask about anything that concerns you.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

this sux big time u can never be to concerned for ur child, u should definitely look in2 it & talk to the person in charge, let them know about the situation and if they dont seem to care, mind, or think ur loka then i would move him. Does ur son say she's mean to him? sometimes kids will just dis-like someone becuz they didn't let them do an "Oooooo"
Wish for the best but u can never be to overprotective, look in to it & let us know what happened ..
gl

Answer 6

Talk to the teacher- It is her job to deal with it to the aide. I would definitley bring it up. Tell just the facts with no accusations.

Answer 7

Look into it further - your son's well-being is far more important than the feelings of this aide.

Answer 8

Take pictures. Ask ur son "Has she hurt you" "DId she hit you", "Did she pinch you", he will tell you. I don't think u are being overly concerned, I think you need to stay on top of it!! Get to the bottom of those marks, QUICK!

Answer 9

i mean i think the teacher did it but then he might got in a fight with one of his class mates

real talk i think his teacher did it

Answer 10

It's probably nothing, but keep your eyes open anyway.