I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we are planning the wedding and looking for houses right now. But something happened. A girlfriedn called really worry coz my boy tried to grab her breast. She pushed him a way and hit him. She told me and i broke up with him but it hurts too much coz I really love him and we were serious. He keeps calling me and begging me for another chance. Should I take it just like a mistake?
2007-06-17 06:03:35 · 13 answers · asked by blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This the first time he does this. And the first time I see him this regretful. He is really sad.
2007-06-17 06:09:17 · update #1
It seems like you broke up with him without any closure. If you feel he is worth reuniting with, then have a talk with him. Discuss why this happened and why he felt it necessary to grope your friend. If you feel this will never happen again, then you will have to start things in your relationship from the beginning.
2007-06-17 06:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't take it as a mistake but only you know whether or not you should give him another chance or not. I know people say always a cheater but I don't believe that not because I ever cheated but because I have been cheated on. I gave the second chance and as far as I know he hasn't cheated since but I will tell you this it will always be in the back of your mind what he did and if you don't figure out a way to deal with it IF you get back together it will cause resentment and other emotional problems.
2007-06-17 13:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm... poor girl.. I know that u feel, i was in a smiliar situation and it's not easy, but you should think about this.
If he did it ..is cause he had the habit with other women, he does it very often, actually too often that he didn't have control over him and did it with ur girlfriend.. so he is a horrible ! and unfaithful person and u discovered that after 5 years!.
Second, if u get married with him, he will do that again cause he already know that u know his problem and u forgive him and probably u wil forgive him again, so he doesn't care.
You are on time to get away from this guy, your typical guess will be OHH 5 years together!! but it doesn't care, it's better loose 5 years with a guy than all ur life .
Be sure that the correct person will appear on ur life soon.
sometimes this things happen for something.. think about it.
Be strong and don't bring to ur kids that nasty father.
2007-06-17 13:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by rochi_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'll not give him another chance. Sorry, how old is he, he should have enough power of self-control even if he really want a woman "Breast", but he didn't. Many Men like the wowen's figure and wants to touch it, but it doesn't mean that the men can do that. If everyone do that , i can't imagine how the world will become. If the one could not control themselves well, who is a very dangerous person. Be careful...
2007-06-17 13:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by GINGER B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been drinking and she may have been sort of baiting him. Give the guy another chance. Nothing really happened and if the two of you care about each other this is to small a thing to worry about.
2007-06-17 13:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more concerend if he has done this before to people you dont know.....You shouldnt jump into a house and marriage with some one that is going to hurt you...take some time for yourself, and think about it....good luck
2007-06-17 13:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by Thallasa35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. You were serious not him. He's a loser. Forget him. So sorry. The cycle of abuse tends to cycle out of control. He will not ever feel about you the way you felt about him. So so sorry.
2007-06-17 13:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Whamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this REALLY happened , then you should definetely break up with him... but if it didn't , then your friend might be making it up just so you can break up with him and then she can get him,,, or the green monster of jealousy made her make this story up... it really depends on who you trust more...and whether you're willing to give your bf another chance...
2007-06-17 13:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous_asker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has that ever happened before? if there is no history i would give him another chance.
2007-06-17 13:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcorse,you really love him,you should take it because you will regress tomorrow or for half a year and belive me you dont wont to feel that
2007-06-17 13:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by tik-tak 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋