to all of my catholics and other chrisitan denomination....i need help with this, i honest to God need it!?

Question

i might be liking this guy...i really am but hummm there is a main issue that i do not know how to deal with...he openly told me that he was bisexual...as a friend i am totally accpting of it but humm he sees to be wanting more then friendship and he is also a presbytorian but that does bother me jsut as long as you beleive in God. but the Bi part doesnt bother me as a friend it's just as a bf, i dont know hwo to feel about that. i accept him ir eally do but humm...you know waht i mean!!! advice???

to milkalina or lino i dont know...do you know my personal views??? by the way thanx for judging

thank you cathy!

he told me his bi side is only sexual nothing emotional and if that made me feel uncomfortable, he will give it up

Answer 1

Statistics shows that Sexually transmitted diseases are higher amongst the homosexual community. Whether the guy you like says he’s bisexual. I’d still classify him as GAY, and I don’t think you’ll have a lasting relationship with a Gay/Bisexual dude since they’re more attracted to the same gender.

On the other hand, he could be pretending to be Bisexual just so he can get you to bed.

As a Catholic like me, I’d say you’re better off being just friends with him whether he’s bisexual or not.

Answer 2

Some Bisexual men want out of it. I know, I am one. I am also a Christian, but none of that matters! I will tell you what I mean.

If you can love the man, then love him, and the longsuffering that comes with that love is so obviously a part of love. So then, love is an important thing for you with this issue. But it is not the most important thing, believe it or not! We can fool ourselves into thinking that we love when we find out later that we only thought it was love.

So what is more important? What could be more important than feeling love for someone?

How does God feel about this? Are you close enough to God to know? That's where I am going with this. If you know God well enough to know how he looks at you, not only with this subject but also any other, then you will have your answer.

I know that many of us Bisexual men are viewed as gorgeous ( yeah, I have trouble using that word; I am merely quoting), beautiful, attractive, etc. But what you need to do is allow God to give you the discernment which is a wisdom that only comes through him.

So you have to start with your relationship with God, and when you are close to him, you will better know what it is that you need to do.

Answer 3

Talk to him. Ask him if he was interested in a girl, would he renounce his bisexual lifestyle for straight lifestyle. It might be difficult for him to do so because it might be an important part of him. However, if he does seem to be serious about meeting a girl and only being with her then you might have a chance. Honestly, if I was in your place I wouldn't try anything beyond a friendship. You will be getting into a really complex issue and it will just be bad. This comes from a fellow Catholic.

Mikalina is an idiot and obviously knows nothing about Christianity. She sounds like an anti-Catholic person with no idea of what she is talking about.

Answer 4

The Catholic Encyclopedia states Bible is Skeptic and Concocted
A. THE FORMATION OF THE NEW TESTAMENT CANON (A.D. 100-220)
http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/03274a.htm
The idea of a complete and clear-cut canon of the New Testament existing from the beginning, that is from Apostolic times, has no foundation in history. The Canon of the New Testament, like that of the Old, is the result of a development, of a process at once stimulated by disputes with doubters, both within and without the Church, and retarded by certain obscurities and natural hesitations, and which did not reach its final term until the dogmatic definition of the Tridentine Council. ("Canon of the New Testament")
There is a lot of confusion about the earliest existing texts of the Bible. The oldest extant manuscript of the Bible is believed to be the Codex Vaticanus, (preserved in the Vatican Library), which is slightly older than the Codex Sinaiticus (preserved in the British Library), both of which were transcribed in the fourth century.
As for the story of Jesus, there were at least 50 gospels written in the first and second century CE. Four of them (Mathew, Mark, Luke, and John) were included in the official canon during the fourth century CE and are found today in every Bible. All of the original copies of the gospels were lost. What we have now are handwritten copies, which are an unknown number of replications removed from the originals.
Rudolf Bultmann, a prominent 20th-century professor of New Testament studies writes about the life of Jesus:
We can now know almost nothing concerning the life and personality of Jesus, since the early Christian sources show no interest in either, are moreover fragmentary and often legendary; and other sources about Jesus do not exist. (Bultmann 8)

Answer 5

Well technically in a relationship it should be monogomous sooooooooo the fact that he is bi wouldn't matter because there would be no action on it.

And Makilina the Catholic Catechism actually directs us to give them love sympathy and no judgement.

Before you try and bash you actually should know it what you are saying is true or are YOU the one misquoting, judging, and looking like a fool. Even though I do not doubt you are an educated pagan, you obviously are not educated on everything you speak.

Answer 6

Friends ... you're doing great.
Romance & life partnership - warning, Warning, WARNING.

1. You're worried about getting caught in a relationship where someone cheats on you; since it's happened to every family member you can think of (u'r past ?'s). So, a "Bi-Sexual" would leave the door open where they could cheat on you with any sex. It makes the door to your fears open up that much more.

Sounds like you still need to teach yourself how you as a child of God wanna be treated before getting a relationship.

2. Read up on what Chirstopher West writes about making a Homosexual a Heterosexual and decide if you have the fortitude to stick by him in all circumstance should u fall in luv:

"6. Homosexual to Heterosexual.

" ... Any other desire or attraction is like cold in the absence of heat, or darkness in the absence of light. Cold cannot "change" into heat. The presence of heat vanquishes cold. Darkness doesn't "Change" into light. The presence of light vanquishes darkness.

Similarly, homosexuals don't "change" into heterosexuals. Men and women simply become what they are. That is, as the sun rises in the cold and darkness, men & women who struggle with same sex attraction can and do experience warmth and light. The truth of sexuality can and does vanquish distortions of sexuality. ..... ..... .... We must remember, however, that it's precisely "the cross" from which we receive the power to "become what we are". This means suffering. This means dying to a lifetime of diseased ways of thinking and behaving. This means letting go of the very thing, perhaps, in which a person has posited his identity, and re-positing that identity in the death and resurrection of Christ.

This means "it ain't easy". I wouldn't want to imply that a person with same sex attraction could simply rid him or herself of it just by praying hard enough or having enough faith. For those who have experienced transformation, most will attest that it comes slowly and painfully. It comes only if a person is willing to pick up his or her cross every day. And sometimes the cross gets heavier before it gets lighter.

So the answer to the question ( can homosexuals change to heterosexual) with all proper clarifications, is yes. As numerous "former homosexuals" demonstrate, it is possible for a person even with predominate same-sex attraction, if he or she is willing and receives the proper counseling, to experience rightly ordered sexual attraction. This doesn't mean, for whatever reason, that it always happens. Nor is a person loved any less by God if he or she doesn't experience such a change.

But it is possible, and that should be a source of great hope for those who are seeking to overcome their struggle with same sex attractions. It should also be noted that clinical experience seems to demonstrate that to the degree a person has lived actively as a homosexual, it's more difficult to experience rightly ordered sexual desire. Conversely, those who experience the attraction but haven't acted on it usually experience transformation of their sexual desires more readily." (pgs. 151-152)

Answer 7

What?

Can you translate this into English?

Answer 8

First, learn to spell.

Second, as a Catholic, you are required to shun this man, misquote your Bible, and threaten him with eternal hellfire.

Third, since you are Catholic, it shouldn't matter anyway, you don't believe in premarital sex, remember? But, again, since you also don't believe in birth control, you are opening yourself up to several STDs, assuming you can forget your Catholic upbringing for a while.