i had a good friend before, we were close since we were kids. all through highschool we were bestfriends. when we graduated, i asked her out on a date, and we started going out for about a month. but after 2nd year college, her family moved to another state and we never saw each other again. 7 years later, i ran into her at a mall, and we started talking. i asked her what she does for a living, and she said she did porn. i was pretty shocked by her answer, and she asked if i don't tell anyone. i said i wouldn't, then she asked if we can go out again, just like old times.so we went out to eat at a restaurant. when i got home, i searched her name on the internet, and found a lot of pictures and videos of her having sex with a groups of guys......should i still go out with her? i mean, she was my best friend, and i do miss her, but im not sure what people will think of me if they found out i was dating a pornstar
2007-06-17 04:29:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
=] most guys would kill to have a chance with their favourite pornstar.
yet i guess this relationship is slightly different, shes not just a picture in a magazine, you know the person behind the character. you knew her before.
what are your reasons for hesitating? would people's comments bother you? if they dont know, then they wont be able to mention it. other people shouldnt have any say in your relationship anyway. =]
if your bothered about her sleeping with other men.. thats a slightly different issue. would it bother you if it was her job? what could she do about it? perhaps she could look into glamour modelling instead of full sex porn. would you still have a problem with that? try and turn it into a positive rather than a negative. instead of seeing it as her cheating every time she goes out to work, see it as an art form. or enjoy all the hot moves she'll bring home =P its only a problem if you let it be one.
at the end of the day, you know this girl. you know what shes like, you know what her values are. if you still want to be a part of her life, then go for it. it could work out fantastically, or it might not... but then thats the odds with any relationship, right?
good luck =]
2007-06-17 04:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-19 09:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kristian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a woman who made me happy and I tries to look at her as a person. She went to become a stripper and it went downhill from there. She was, i later found out, molested by her father and at age 21 had over 40 sexual partners. The night I needed her to stand by me, she walked. She is now dating three different people and has a minor cocaine addiction and can be diagnosed with clinical nymphomania brought up by acute stress in reaction to a traumatic incident.
The moral of the story is this girl has had a rough life. She has displayed the ability to have sex for money and have it filmed no less. Don't let her tell you otherwise , that is exactly what it is. If you really like this person, and more importantly love yourself as a human being, she has to leave that business for good then it's up to you if you can trust her. Even then trust will be the big killer. You won't be able to, trust me. She hasn't done anything to you yet, but she won't have to. The thought will always linger in your mind, If she can ahve sex for cash, then why not behind my back??
My advice to you, run. It's not for you and you're setting yourself up for a fall. It might be cool to date a pornstar, but you should only use them as they use themselves.....for sex.
2007-06-19 21:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Miguel R 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you are asking the question means you know what the answer is. Just for the heck of it I will throw my 2 cents in as though this was a serious question. You have got to be kidding. Have you heard it said that when you sleep with someone, you are sleeping with all the people they have slept with, and then of course with all of the people they have slept with, onward to infinity.
In short BAD IDEA!
2007-06-17 04:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by napamikej 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Date A Porn Star
2016-10-05 01:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't mind your new porn-star girlfriend sleeping with lots of other men, since that's her job. She might also compare you to men who have sex for a living and find you're not quite up to standard.
2016-05-17 22:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pornstars are more of a sex object. It's hard having a relationship with one as you would have to be comfortable with the fact that she would have sex with other dudes.
2017-02-09 16:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Johan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to answer a question for yourself to know what to do: Do you care more what other people think or do you care more to happy?
When you answer this question you will know if you should go out with her or not.
Good Luck
2007-06-17 04:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Dimitar A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well lets start with what people think of you right this second, they think your entirely spineless and untrustworthy SHE'S YOUR FRIEND!!! and she told you not to tell anyone so why would you go on the biggest sight in the world and tell everyone about her? secondly most people would die to date a pornstar so if your too dumb to take that oppertunity i feel sorry for you.
2007-06-17 04:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by specialistics 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes mate! Don't let this slip away. It means your too lucky to be dating a hot girl (I would assume since she's in porn) nowadays. It doesn't matter what she's done if you're ok with it and confident bout yourself, everyone's point of view is negligible.
2007-06-18 19:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jason C 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋