can i go and taik to him first or give him a slap or leave him
2007-06-17 04:15:33 · 10 answers · asked by sonia g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your reaction to his action of hurting you depends on your personality.
Keep an eye on the result when you are undecided about something
Your Action Result Your Personality
1. If you go and talk, you would come to know his side of the story and reason, that what went wrong and where. You are Wise/Intelligent/Smart/Grown-Up/Mature
2. Slap him, that would be hurting for him, he may be innocent or may slap you back - Wouldn't be nice
3. Leave him, if you are irresponsible, can't face it, you can leave. Try to know why he had hurt you ?
2007-06-17 04:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him, although if you really have feelings for him you might want to stay.
I suggest leaving him... peacefully if you can. Don't slap him or hit him or anything like that to make him more angry, because that could end up in you and/or him both getting hurt.
2007-06-17 04:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your'e looking for permission to do something ? Or trying to find out what is an acceptable response to his actions ? Just let yourself feel whatever you feel,express your anger in a way that won't damage anyone,but if you want to heal from something,you should not suppress your emotions,let it all out,confront him if you feel that's what it will take.
2007-06-17 04:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by tally_fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if he hurt u mentally or physically, if he hurt u physically beat his *** then dump his *** i hate when guys (and me being a guy) hit a woman, that means they are not men....(yeah if my girlfriend is jokingly beating up on me i gotta beat up on her back, i dotnt hurt her though even tho she hits me pretty hard)
mentally: if he hurts you explain yourself to him if he doesnt seem to care leave his *** he doesnt love you, however he may not have known he hurt your feeling (i do this myself alot with my girlfriend) give him a chance to apologise and try to do better next time. In a relationship your always gonna hurt each other mentally, you just gotta know that when you start.....just dont slap him for it unless hes being retarded about whatever it was!
-goodluck!
2007-06-17 04:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave. That'll show that your a better person than him. No matter what you do, you'll still have to live with the pain unfortunately.
2007-06-17 04:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by DatGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the best person you can be, and stay away from the one that hurt you.
2007-06-17 04:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it,and move on.Act like it doesn't bother you.If he sees it bothers you,then he's won.Don't give in to his head games.
2007-06-17 04:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Babylove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away and if u cant, tell someone or have someone help you out of this relationship.
2007-06-17 04:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by First L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depens on what kin of hurt you mean.
2007-06-17 04:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt him back
2007-06-17 04:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋