Why does she do this?
2007-06-17 03:57:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Because you snagged a Bridezilla, those women who seem to loose their minds the second the engagement ring slides on thier fingers until the wedding rings are in place.
She's bringing you along because she wants you to be involved or at least want to be involved. If it is something that you really hate then you should speak up because it is your wedding day too. If you don't feel really strongly then just let her do her thing. She's probably had a picture of her "dream wedding" in her mind since she was 6 with a pillowcase on her head for a veil and it's brainwashed that men don't care except for being told when and where to show up. sometimes we brides forget that the groom has opinions too. :)
2007-06-17 05:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's got you trained and under her thumb.
If you don't agree with something I hope you are speaking up.
No matter what people say, its YOUR day as well and not just the brides.
My fiance is very involved in the decisions of our wedding day and I would not just drag him around everywhere and make every single choice.
Is she asking your opinions? Is she going with them or compromising?
2007-06-17 11:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she sounds controlling... Just tell her you are a manly man and are just not into the planning details! Though, you should listen and offer an opinion if you want. After all, it's money the two of you have saved yourselves to be spent on the wedding, so have some input.
2007-06-18 01:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have put your foot down a long time ago on this one and let her know that it is your wedding also and that you want to be involved on some things but not everything. Such as the big things, cake, DJ, reception hall, ceremony place and that is about it. My fiance one time I asked him about favor boxes and he said honestly, I could care less if the boxes are triangle or square.
2007-06-17 11:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Heather D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants for you to feel involved in the process, but doesn't want to pressure you into actually making decisions. If you have a strong opinion on something, speak up - otherwise, just go along for the ride.
2007-06-17 07:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she loves you and wants your moral support I am sure. She wants to make all the decisions for the wedding, but still wants to involve you. If it were me I would be asking for your opinion if I were dragging you along. Hopefully it is close to your wedding date so you wont have to tag along much more. Congrats and good luck.
2007-06-17 05:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that is what brides-to-be do!
Look, even though it is your wedding too - it is HER DAY!
A woman gets one chance - one shot - at walking down the aisle for the first time.
Most little girls start dreaming of their wedding day - and that dream continues to develop and grow until the actual wedding day happens.
Smile...nod...agree...go with her...accommodate her wishes...be the shoulder for her to cry on...be the rock that she can lean on...
When all is said and done, you will have a very happy wife...and if your wife is happy...you'll be happy!
2007-06-17 04:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She does it because she wants you to know that it is not only HER day, it is also YOUR day!! And she is right!
You don't say that you are unhappy with her choices, so going with her to the different things and being interested is a good thing to do. If she chooses a pattern or color, and you prefer another one, speak up, see what she does.
2007-06-17 04:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, she is listening to what you say, but she has specific ideas about what she wants. She also wants you there to support her. Offer your opinion, but support her. She is planning this wedding to make you happy.
2007-06-17 08:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by longhornfan1722 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she wants you to be a part of your wedding, But she is planning everything instead of asking for your opinion on things. If it bothers you then talk to her about it, and see what she says.
2007-06-17 04:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by Over and Over 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋