the problem is shes saying the flight costs 450 pound and i need to send her 200 towards it. she seems nice and genuine but should i really trust her?
2007-06-17 02:41:47 · 36 answers · asked by jamiecoxy79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what do you mean, come over and stay? for a week, or the rest of her life? you don't say if you 2 have talked about this before, how long you 2 have been chatting, what plans you have made, and so on...
like a lot of other people on here i am very concerned about this, but without knowing any more details i can't say what would be the best course of action.
if you need someone to chat to about this, you can email or IM me from my profile. i would be more than happy to give what advice i can, speaking as someone in a similar situation to yours.
what ever you do, think about it very carefully, a decision like this will affect the rest of your life.
2007-06-17 03:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by ktulu_has_awoken 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its hard to trust what someon says over the internet. I wouldnt have a stranger, which is what she is no matter how many times you've talked, come over my home and know where I live.
I think if you really want to meet her say that you'd rather go away for the weekend with her, like a bed and breakfast. This way you both take care of your own expenses and you meet in a public location where both of you can feel at ease. This way you can be sure if she really wants to meet you or if she's trying to get your money.
2007-06-17 02:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a con to me. First of all £450 can get you a return flight to Austraila if you shop around.
Secondly why do you need to send her the money? Offer to play out to see her first or meet in a neutral place, if she's genuiene she will agree, if not she will run for the hills.
2007-06-17 02:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by kingpaulii 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. You can pick some mutually interesting place and meet in the middle, providing for your own travel and accommodations. Or if you are so bent on meeting her, go and see her--and again, provide for your own accommodations. Things are always different in person. Now, if she cuts you off because you don't send her any money, then you know she was scamming you. If it's really about meeting you, she won't have a problem with an alternative suggestion.
2007-06-17 02:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by WireJunkie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to send a complete stranger 200 pounds? Get a grip. You must have too much cash to spare if you are even contemplating this. Give some of your riches to charity.
2007-06-17 02:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by suebnm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't part with any money If she really wants to see you she can save up. Is she also expecting you to give her spending money when she arrives? msn, match.com etc is full of people from Africa looking for money. Just be carefull.
Have you rang her at her home address and does the area code correspond with the country she lives in.
2007-06-17 02:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! How can you even ask something like this.
You should not believe her.
She never saw you before and she wanted to stay at your place. She even asked you for money.
She's not a proud and serious person. She is maybe nice, but obviously she has some serious problems with her life and a big freedom, since she wants to stay at your place.
Be very very cautious.
2007-06-17 03:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by veceras 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah,that girl wants your money,forget her,maybe she told the truth,but who cares? if she really want to come see you she will pay by her own.and why should you send 200 pound to i girl that you even never met in outsite?. in sum,no,my friend!!! No. you can date so many girls around you,they're still very nice,genuine,and maybe they don't ask for 200 pounds. just look around. maybe somenice girl out there wants to have a date with you,but you havent figure out.!
2007-06-17 02:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by ^^iluvu^^ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If she was genuine about wanting to meet you she would find a way to get the money together herself. She has probably ripped of other guys online too
2007-06-17 02:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOO she could be a he who lives in England with a bee who want to get 200 pounds
2007-06-17 05:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋