i have this friend who i want to go out with. We are both 19 and went to the same High school for the last year and are currently attending the same college. she is a very good, genuine person. she is a great pal and she one of the boys... we haven't seen each other for about 8 months... in high school i asked her out 3 days after i met her and she made an excuse that she recently got out of a relationship... i knew it was bs. Its been a year and month or so after that. we talk about stuff and she seems interested. I am confused whether i should ask her out again or not.
Every time i message her she responds, but i have tried calling her 2-3 times but she doesn't pick up. we message each other back and forth often.
I would love to go out with this girl but I dont know if she is interested. i've asked her casually(to go out to the movies) a couple of times but she had plans already made...
i need help on how to ask her in a way she doesn't make an excuse.
2007-06-16 23:15:27 · 6 answers · asked by Kiddo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends normally don't work to well but if you really want to ask her ask her what she is doing on preferble a saturday night but any night works and take he to a fancey place not expensive but fancey but and casual so it won't be to her like your going to ask her to marry you. Pick her up (going to the door is really romantic) and buy her a drink and tell her she looks georgus in that dress, jeans, earings, shoes or what ever she's wearing thats really little and hard to notice and after the night when she has had a really good time ask her and if you did it right you might get good pash before you go home. And at the end walk her to the door YES all the wsy there.GOOD LUCK
2007-06-16 23:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well firstly i suggest that you tell this girl how you feel.. when you do that she will let you know whether she feels the same way or if she only sees you as a pure friend! If you dont tell her how u feel then ull spend the next few days, weeks, months in that matter wondering what if? If she always responds to your messages then dont think that she isnt interested coz if she wasnt she wouldnt even bother replying to any of ur text messages. try and make plans with her when you two are both free in advance so the date will actually happen :)
2007-06-24 21:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though she has given you excuses on at least three occasions. If she wanted to go out with you she would at least have let you know she'd like to go another time. It really seems she is using those excuses to try to spare your feelings. She does seem willing to be a friend to talk to. But that's all she's interested in now.
2007-06-24 21:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as though she isn't interested in being more than friends. I would just be happy being friends with her and look elsewhere for a relationship. Pressing her to be more than friends will only drive her away.
2007-06-16 23:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by z_o_r_r_o 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not interested. Stop being a pest.
2007-06-24 03:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2007-06-16 23:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by meli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋