I'm in a long distant relationship and am with someone for a while now. But I've been having problems. All it takes from him is a simple comment and I'm instantly turned on. Though, even though he says he doesn't, it seems as though he just brushes it off easily even after I tell him I'm turned on. Is it normal that the female in a relationship is more sex-crazed than the male? Or am I just not very attractive to him? More often than not, he just wants to sleep and I want phone sex. Am I doing something wrong?
2007-06-16 22:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by -s1ghs- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't even say it's normal, since female or male, we are human beings after all, and humans have sexual desires. ^_^
About the sleeping part, I believe that he will actually want to phone sex with you if he's not tired. You didn't do anything wrong,dear, it's just that you've picked the wrong timing.
Also, instead of asking sex from him, why not try to arouse him? Like, a simple kiss, or touch him fondly...
Most importantly, do this when he's not tired, like on a Sunday or any other day that he's not working!
Good luck! ^_^
2007-06-16 22:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship can only work for a while . yes at first it can be a turn on with the phone sex thing but it get really borring. maybe he has another woman where he is and have real sex. Maybe he doesn't find you attractive too but like to play now the game borred him
2007-06-16 22:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt say its exactly normal no. But then again in your situation it is a long distance relationship. And alot of guys I would think, me included, would not be really excited about getting all worked up then hanging up the phone.
Perhaps you should work toward being together.
2007-06-16 22:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by sociald 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. Every girl and guy is different. I'd say it's normal but how about trying to compromise? I don't think he's not attracted to you.. I think it's 'cause he doesn't know you too much.. I'd say spending more quality time is better before going further in.
2007-06-16 22:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just playing hard to get, like it doesnt really affect him when it actually does so it seems like ur the horny one. more than likely he is equally horny, but maybe u call when he is actually tired from work. maybe call at a time when he is not so sleepy.
2007-06-16 22:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Future 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to keep the spark going when its long distance, he probably found someone that gave him the action he was looking for, my suggestion is find someone closer to you that fills your sexual needs.
2007-06-16 22:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
different people have different sex drives, gender doesn't matter, but guys do tend to have higher sex drives though
2007-06-16 22:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women are all ways hornier then men are.
2007-06-16 22:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jeffrey N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nah your not doing anything wrong... just talk it out with him and everything should go fine =)
2007-06-16 22:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just need someone that enjoys sex as much as you do---like me !!----longdistance anything is hard to deal with---find someone closer you can really get physical with----like me ???!!!
2007-06-16 22:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋