I loved a girl for 4years and now she is tellin that she will now come to me leaving her parents ....she wants to leave me...and marry some one else....what should i do? lots of bad thoughts are coming in my mind..what should i do?
2007-06-16 20:38:24 · 11 answers · asked by Rahul pal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't support her in this. IF she loves you and wants to get married. Talk to her parents and get married. If she don;t want to marry , but she wants to come out of her house and marry someone else. It is big trouble to you. If anything happens to her. Her parents will blame you or even go for police case. So just be carefull. Best say her directly that "No".
2007-06-20 18:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious question; serious answer.
Note that out of the whole lot of words used by you in your question, only the words "bad thoughts" belong to you, and they truly are yours; for they are coming to you now at this moment, when you do not need them. Nobody needs them any time.
All other words like; love, girl, her parents, being left, and marriage, do not belong to you; atleast for now.
Through the medium of these bad thoughts, you are not only loosing positive energy and inner strength, but you are also diluting your decision making powers and abilities of mind to drive and to guide you.
Try doing something which will help you; (a) stop the outflow of positive energy (b)and regain inner strength; (c) which will help you affirm your stand to henceforth work hard to find ways and means of doing the (a) and (b) jobs and to follow related tasks religiously; and finally to ensure that you take decisions for fulfillment of desires of the (d)welfare of the world of your family, (e)of the world at large, and (f) of yourself; instead of those which will give sensual pleasures to you only; and all this with a firmness of resolve, and with the will powers of those whom you find and know as of being of help to you in achiving the goals, a, b, c, d, e, and f.
2007-06-16 21:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by ts@greenpastures 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years... quite a long time.
She may still Loves you but she can't go against her parents.
Well, it hurts but you have to come out of it. Try to forget her as a bad dream and find a new partner and get settled.
2007-06-16 20:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really rude! She spended time with you and just leaves! Its like she is using you! Very rude! Tell her how you feel and don't think anything wrong! She can't just use you and throw you away! Hope everything works out!
Mimi :-)
2007-06-18 10:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her set her free, you cannot force anyone to love you or stay if that is no longer what they want, love is not about owning somebody, is thinking about what would make them happy, in time you will know that she is not the one and that along the road you would find someone better,someone who will stay.
2007-06-18 15:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have already answered the previous question read it and be careful of your career.
2007-06-16 20:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start afresh, is the sincere advice from someone who should know!
2007-06-17 18:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey rahul!!!!!!!! what i feel is u must make her understand n also make her realise the importance of ur relationship.u must make her feel secure with u.dont loose patience.n surely she will understand u n if she doesn't ................... no prob..... may be someone else is waiting for u!!!!!!!!
2007-06-17 01:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by nikky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just fuuuuuck off her and look forward there is new life waiting for you.
2007-06-19 04:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by veera v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her good bye.happy that you realised her true face
2007-06-18 20:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋