well im confused about it. i just had it today. i dont know if i liked it or idk. he wanted to and i wanted to but i wasnt ready. but we did. i dont even know if i did it right. i think im regretting it.okay so here how it was he was trying to teach me how to throw a football and he was placing my hand on the football and all that and my freind said romantic moment. and finally he said he really wanted to kiss me. so then i wanted to do it alone and then im like i dont know and then hes like come on and then we did. then we just hugged and smiled and went back from where we were. and hes like that wasnt that bad was it. im like no. i was kindof unconfortable too. just help me. it was both our first kisses to. and he was nerous too. just help me get through this crisis please.
2007-06-16 18:39:27 · 15 answers · asked by H@nn@h -- - <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry! Nobody's first kiss is perfect. Nobody!
If you're not ready for it, though, don't do it again. Wait until you are comfortable. Don't let anyone pressure you into it.
2007-06-16 18:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Meg M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was nice of you to let it, since for him he really wanted to do it and even asked. I guess the thing here is that he did the pressuring thing with the "come on". Maybe it would have been nicer for him to have respected your first rejection. HOWEVER you weren't confident enough in turning it down. And so you sorta of asked for him to encourage you more to a decision. If it made him happy, that's a consolation. Find out what he thought of it maybe, might be nice to talk on it once, significant event that it was. And anyhow, if you're not ready for a 2nd kiss for a while just make that clear, and the tension can be removed back off. And when you're ready you can do it again. You could practice between now and then to get better at it. It doesn't have to be some other person it could be a mirror, your hand. First kiss - a simple thing in a way, but also a trick to doing it well. Just like anyone can get up in front of some friends and start singing a song or a karaoke, but if you haven't practiced much it isn't going to sound good at all and it's almost like why to even do it, it's just going to jar everyones ears. But if you take time to practice that song of yours for a few weeks until you can do it so well you want to sing it to the whole world, and THEN you get up to sing it.... Big big difference.
2007-06-17 05:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by >>-rsb--> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. That's cute. It's okay. Pretty much everyone's first kiss is a bit (to a lot) awkward. You'll get more comfortable and enjoy kissing more the more you do it (not saying go around kissing everyone hahah) and the older you get. So bottom line is, don't worry about it. He was probably just as nervous as you.
2007-06-16 18:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you had the kiss huh? Really there is no crisis, so stop panicing, sounds like he's happy about it. You'll have many more kisses and as time goes along both of you will get better at it.
2007-06-16 18:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him about it, since you are going out you both should be able to talk about anything. I remember my first kiss and I wasnt sure if it was right, but after talking with my girlfriend things were much more clear.
2007-06-16 18:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Like woahhh!!! (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly okay. Everyone is nervous after their first kiss and most do regret it, at first that is. Soon you will be comfortable with the idea and you'll begin to enjoy it more.
2007-06-16 18:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ronnie Weasley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww how lovable, ok heres what i think of you're able to desire to do, btw i understand i do no longer sound like one yet i'm a guy and that i've got kissed a woman b4, and when I asked her afterwards if she replaced into scared she mentioned "i did no longer understand the thank you to kiss anybody, I merely replaced into loopy approximately you and wanted it so I placed my lips close to on your face after a hug and you kissed me, then I merely did the comparable action decrease back, kissing is (humorous i understand) like a biting contest(do no longer chew him thts a dumb thank you to kiss I hate tht way they do it in movies and its purely for like intense couples), the hardship-loose action is to bypass forward with your mouth protecting your lips unfastened and merely feeling his lips with your lips, yet notwithstanding occurs, he will do something and you purely do it decrease back, he will push at you, you push decrease back P.S If he does something like french kissing or tongue feeling or intense lip locking like that reject the kiss. Doing that stuff is risky cus you may start to bleed and you may understand approximately AIDS and stuff. additionally, doing a kiss meant for couples after 2 weeks, he's prolli merely utilising you. additionally you sound youthful so he's prolli youthful such as you and if he's already had adventure to appreciate those forms of kisses he's prolli dated alot of ladies already and thts sorta wierd particularly if he's that youthful.
2016-09-27 22:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by vaden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was your first one. Dont worry... lol My first one wasnt that great 2 but it got better w/ the same person.
2007-06-16 18:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by Wendie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. How cute.
Well first kisses are awkward. It was super awkward for me. I liked it, but didn't like it. But after a while, you won't be so confused or anything.
It's just your first kiss. Things are always a bit awkward at first.
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2007-06-16 18:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Jamie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha... this isn't a crisis at all.. haha...
It isn't as bad as mine.. i don't even remember my 1st...! You both like each other, you'd have more time to practice it on each other and that's the fun part.. haha..
2007-06-16 18:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by deadbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋