we were separted for 7 moths we got back toegther a month go.he was see a another girl but things did not work out between him that girl.because her family did not approved him he came and visted me after 7 months passed when every thing went wrong in their relationship I feel like am his second choice how would you feel? he wants me to marry him but hes not willing to relocate I do not understand why hes not willing to relocate if he love me as much as person getting ready to tie the knot.after all he the one who restarted a new relationship so why I bau down relocate for him where I do not wanna live? I feel used what do you people think?
2007-06-16 18:35:57 · 4 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really do love him but he stepped off the face of the earth with out so much as even a phone call for at less 7 months. later then pops back up in my life like jack in the boxs. I am so mixed up about this relationship he not honest about every thing in this relationship thats the way I feel because he,s not willing to relocate.he told me he was falling in love with other girl. could you please add to your opion.
2007-06-16 19:12:32 · update #1
I mess up I meant type My boyfriend wants to marry me. but he he dose not want to relocate.
2007-06-17 05:39:24 · update #2
I MEANT TO SAY MY BOYFRIEND WANTS ME TO HIM .BUT HE DOES NOT WANT TO RELOCATE.
2007-06-18 12:27:46 · update #3
Don't relocate. This guy doesn't sound stable enough to marry, and you're not sure enough of your relationship to do so. Keep dating him if you want, as time will give you both the information you need. Don't move in with him and don't move for him. Let him prove his love for you.
2007-06-16 18:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really does sound like you're second choice. The other girls parents did not approve of him so now he's running back to you.
If he really loves you, he would make the effort to relocate or take it into real consideration. It sounds like he's not really trying, and just has you to fall back on because it didn't work out for him when he left you to begin with.
I say, you should leave him before he tries and hurts you again.
2007-06-17 01:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question: you feel used. You feel he should be willing to move if he wants to marry you.
Seems to me he is desperate to make this other girl jealous or try to move on from her, trying to forget. If he cannot make that sacrifice for you then you already have your answer.
2007-06-17 01:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Go Coogs! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie he sint the right one for you.. doesnt sound like your old enough to marrya nyway..dont allow yourself to play second fiddle
if this guy loves you enough to marry you hed relocate or whatever it takes to be together..ok?? he played around and then he came back toyou..how long before he does it again?? you deserve alot better... and i dont or didnt hear anything about how much you love him...so please get rid of him and if you marry him itll be the worst mistake of your life dear...hugsss an god bless
2007-06-17 01:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by bettym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋