I need help. I have had sex pleanty of times but the guy is always on top. What am I suppose to do if i'm on top? I want to give it a try but I dont' want it to be a bad and so.
2007-06-16 18:13:14 · 9 answers · asked by always_love_4_you_454 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit with the performance anxiety already! Geez, I'm sure he won't mind if you say "oh Pooh-bear, I read about this and want to try it. You'll be patient with me while i figure this out, won't you?"
He will be putty in your hands. OK, bad choice of words.
OK, you on top. He's staring skyward, with his legs straight. You put him where you want him. It may take a little adjusting to get the right fit. Try it for a couple of strokes and see what works best. Every couple is different, so there are no hard and fast rules.
Variations: you can have your knees by his hips and your legs along his. You can control your pace by bracing yourself with your hands at his shoulders. This hurts the wrists after awhile, so change your hand position as needed. Sometimes I make fists and brace my weight on my knuckles like an orangutan.
In this position you can lean forward and let your breasts stroke his chest as you rock. or you can be upright like on a horse. Once you get a feel for it you can vary it more.
You can move your legs up into a sqautting position and bounce, using your legs for momentum rather than upper body.
He can open his legs like a frog which causes his pelvis to tilt and make his penis seem longer. Or maybe it's just becaus I have more to thrust against when my partner does this. It's just easier and we both like it better.
You can do alot of things. Use your imagination. but after you get the basic down. :)
As you're bouncing around, it's likely his penis will slip out. No biggie. Just try not to crunch it accidentally. Also, don't make any huge movements that force his penis towards his toes. Very painful for him.
Have fun! Don't forget protection!
2007-06-16 19:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by suz665 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to try it but you're not sure what to do. He'll help you. Or, just ask him to lay still and go slow. Try doing figure eights or little circles. Don't worry so much about being bad. Do what feels good to you, you're in charge!
2007-06-16 18:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-27 22:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by vaden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you're really missing a lot. reverse cowgirl is my favorite position.
Get up on your feet, put your hands on his knees, and squat up and down on it, that's my favorite way, but any way you choose to do it, on top you can change the angle, the depth and the speed, it's wonderful.
2007-06-16 18:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt want to be on top being on bottom is the best because u are the one getting the ride and it feels so much better on the bottom trust me
2007-06-16 18:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2007-06-16 18:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn by watching....watch a porn
2007-06-16 18:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by recruiterjodi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhh you move basically
2007-06-16 18:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just suggest it to him!!!
2007-06-16 18:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by Coles_Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋