How do you move on?

Question

I am a twenty year old woman, and I am currently home for the summer from college, however this past week I have run into so much heart ache I cannot bare it alone. As I said I live with my mother, however last week, my mother's husband and I got into a fist fight. It started with an argument between him and I and then my mother came in between us, he pushed her therefore I snapped and pushed him back. the fight escalated from there and he grabbed me and tried to throw me out of the house, I punched him in his face several times. but it was a loosing battle because I lost my mother in the process...she chose to side with him. I am hurt. This has been an on going issue since I was seven years old along with my sisters we have never gotten along. However I know that she has made her choice. How do you move on from this, how can I love her. How can I have a relationship with her, when I don't trust her anymore.

Answer 1

That is so sad. I'm 15 and my mom and her husband are the same way. He is extremely abusive and creepy, and she always takes his side. She hurts me to make him laugh and strengthen their bond. She told me that if I didn't like him I could move out, because they were staying together (even though she knows he is cheating on her). It is so stupid.

My advice is, block them out of your life. Tehy will bring you down. What about your dad, what's he like? Make a new family out of friends and the rest of your family, who will love you and support you.

x3

Answer 2

Forget your mother. Take it that you are borned an orphan until she comes back crawling for you.