I have the most sincere love and trust in God and have praying and learning scripture with all my heart And in 1/2003 I began my new life it as if the old me died. I am now still lonely and more confused and drained. My family and friends have their ownd lives and always happy at work and everywhere I go alone but when i am home alone the happiness disappears and no one knows me truely, i am not loved?
2007-06-16 15:12:37 · 22 answers · asked by lovepepsired 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You are loved so much more than you realize and you are never alone.
I know what you are going through and honestly I was baptized and recieved the Lord 5 years ago even though I had always believed I didn't know. And I still struggle with what you are going through on an occassion but I was where you are 5 years ago and God has opened up so much to me and has brought so many wonderful Christian people in my life I'm blown away!
I love my parents dearly and I have a good relationship with them but God blessed me even more by giving me a second set of parents and I call them my God given parents. They are Christians and treat me as a daughter. So I now have two sets of parents and miracoulsy God is slowing changing the hearts of my family and my mom is now saved!
Hold on it is hard but he narrow path is not the easist one. But remember you are NEVER alone and you are loved. God has a plan for you a huge one. Just hold on and get with a good church and start meeting people there. That is a start and it will help.
I really struggled for a long time and it took me a long time to realize that I'm alone becaues of me not because of the rest of the world or because of God.
He wants you to have it all! Just hold on sweetheart.
Dear Lord I pray that you will comfort this young lady and heal all of her broken parts. Heal her wounds and take away her loneliness so that she may weep with joy and not bitterness. Take away her suffering and show her your glory through it. Help her to hold on and craddle her in your arms tonight so that she may feel you holding her and rest in your peace and comfort. Forgive us our sins and let her rest in you and weep with joy for you. Let her praise you and remember that you are the Almighty and will see her through.
In Jesus Name we pray. Amen. Amen. Amen.
2007-06-16 15:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be a teenager?
I'm sure that your feelings are perfectly natural for your age dear. Most teens feel alone, lost, confused, conflicted etc. Not to say that these are good things - you can overcome them.:)
does your church have a youth group? Can you join a club at school? You need to get involved to keep yourself busy so that you do not dwell on these feelings. Why not try volunteering?
I'm not suggesting being busy every minute of every day. Simply join a club or volunteer at a local shelter for a couple evenings a week, and that should be sufficient to keep your mind more concentrated on something other than your plight. You don't want to become depressed.
As well, continue to pray and ask the Lord to sustain you through this time. Ask Him what He would have you do with your time as well.
blessings dear - I pray that you will find peace soon. :)
2007-06-16 15:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to find the energy and courage to pursue the things that motivate you. Make your own waves. If you don't have a close circle of friends and family you can start to build your own life little by little. Try new things and don't be discouraged if something does not work out. Your life may be a bit in the doldrums, but things do change. Be patient and perservering. Pray for doors to knock on and doors that open.
2007-06-16 15:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, you are loved. It's OK to be confused because we live in a very fast moving world where things are happening all the time.Take time out to talk to someone in your family about how you feel and I'm sure they will help you. I'll pray for you and hope that you will find happiness soon.
2007-06-16 15:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by mandm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had to wean myself off of the need to spend every weekend with the same friend. When she had other plans -- or didn't feel like doing anything, it would be really difficult for me.
I have a fairly active life alone....I do spend time with the folks -- they live 4 miles away -- and I have gotten used to going to Church alone....week after week. I am as involved as I want to be. Become your own person and LET yourself be loved!
2007-06-16 15:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by The Carmelite 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The Catholic faith is all about community. Go to Mass, join church groups, and definately pray! Find a patron saint for loneliness and pray for their intercession.
God loves you (as you already know)! Express your love for Him through prayer, petition, thanksgiving, etc. Have a blessed week, and may God continue to bless you as he already has.
2007-06-16 15:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by txofficer2005 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God loves you more than you can know. I understand how it is to be lonely. I have a piece of advice for you that is unfailing; get your attention off of yourself and unto Jesus Christ. Reach out to other people who feel lonely. It truly is the cure. May God give you peace, trust in Him and He will lead you in the right direction.
2007-06-16 15:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Esther 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to make your own life....If friends and family are busy doing their own things....then you should go out and do what you like...take a class, join a support group....volunteer some where...get out and do something instead of sitting around feeling sorry for your self.
2007-06-16 15:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
come here and give me a hug! MWAH! you just stay on that work out routine, keep your faith, and all things will come to you.
sometimes it's very difficult to see the big picture because we are rapped up in the details; and the devil is surely in the details.
i envy people with true faith! ya'll have it all! you just better hang tough....it ain't easy gal! you just keep keepin' on and it will all work out..maybe? i hope? it might?
but seriously, happiness has to come from within. it's my experience that most things i think will make me "HAPPY", don't. and some of us are never fullfilled. but we don't stop looking...it's gonna be alright and it's all good, PEPSIRED. you just keep that good well grounded faith!
2007-06-16 17:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in a parish, diocesan or synod youth group. God loves you and develop a close personal relationship to Him.
2007-06-16 15:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by James O 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋