There was no major fight or problems. Just little pitty stuff that she complained of. I know that I could resolve that, but how can anyone get through after a woman drops you. Any hope?
2007-06-16 14:45:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a reason why she told him she wants to move on. Why would one want to get back with someone who doesn't want them? If you're really talking about you, don't try to win back the love cuz you already lost it...
As I always say, one man/woman's loss is another one's treasure...
I believe she may want YOU back later (when she moves on and no one's there for her), and you may not be available...at that time, she will feel the pain she put you through-which she'll deserve. C'mon you're worth it or will mean something to someone else, give that other person a chance to see what you have to offer them...
On the other hand, you sound like you knew what her needs were (whatever she 'complained' about), saying you could resolve that..you had that chance to do so and didn't "listen to her feelings" We are sensitive to men who 'know' our needs and make the choice NOT to fulfill them.
There's a difference between being p***y-whipped and actually doing everything you want/need to do for the one you love. Some men have the fear of being looked at as p***y-whipped. If you feel she's the one for you, then maybe you can just sit around and wait for her. But be prepared to not blame her for wasting 'your' time by waiting for her, because you chose it. She gave you the clue that she's done...we don't have control on if you get it or not...
For the mature women, we never let anyone go or even the tell the guy unless we are really done with them.
2007-06-17 10:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by LoveSlave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sir, sound like a man that doesn't have a clue---it is over and she wants to move on--she said that and that is it--if she wants to come back--she will--but not because you were doing the hurt puppy act and being a pest. Get what I mean??? there are other new women to meet--go out and have fun and do not make the same mistakes with a new girl--admit the issues and work on not doing them again--that's what a real mature man would do. leave this old one alone--she obviously doesn't want you !!! Is that clear???
2007-06-16 21:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't, I'm afraid! If she's said that she wants to move on, I think you have to respect her decision. She obviously knows there'll be other problems down the track or she'd have stuck with you now. You just have to let go - not easy, but think of what the future might hold for both of you.
2007-06-16 21:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Julia D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps there's more to it, and you guys grew apart. Maybe she fell out of love.
If you'd like to try for a relationship again, your best bet is to build a friendship with her. Start hanging out again.
Show, don't tell, how you're willing to change. As you hang out, let her see that you've matured and grown as a person. Things may grow from there, if they're meant to be.
Good luck.
2007-06-16 21:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there is some weird genetic thing encoded in women...we do like to be chased, so you could give it a whirl.
of course what was small stuff to you may have been major stuff to her as to why she dropped you.
truly, if she loves you and the issues aren't so overwhelming....she'll let you catch her. Good luck
2007-06-16 21:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ask her what she wants in life and ask her if it is possible that you and she could start over on a different foot and one step at a time
2007-06-16 21:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by skeeter195848 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably cannot get her back. Your best shot is to be kind, appear supportive, let her know that the door is still open to her, and then go on and don't mope.
Wish you well!
2007-06-16 21:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dianne A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-18 13:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to win her back. Everything happens for a reason. It was meant for you two to break up.
If you try to get her back, you will only end up embarrassing yourself.
2007-06-16 21:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, grow up. your history. Move on
2007-06-16 21:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋