Tell him the exact same thing. Tell him you need some time, and after that 'exhale' time, you guys will hook up later...show him that you care, but not ready for a relationship as of rite now:)
2007-06-16 14:04:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Do what u think is best for u. Getting cheated on and dumped can make anyone a little gun shy, so u may be right when u feel like u want to deal with it.
But about ur ex wanting to get back together why don't u just say to him that u want to take things slow because ur still dealling with being cheated on and a breakup.
Good Luck
2007-06-16 14:24:57
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answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6
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If it was your ex that cheated on you and dumped you, then just cancel the date. Cancel it anyway and just say you were sorry, but it is too early for you to date and that it is giving you too much anxiety.
If you are having a lot of anxiety, make your first date short, like having coffee or lunch. You should not be taking anyone home or going to anyone's house on a first date. I may be old-fashioned, but that doesn't mean old-fashioned wasn't the right way. Good luck, and peace be with you.
2007-06-16 14:09:12
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answered by cavassi 7
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You shouldnt get into another relationship unless your ready, which is clear that your not. So if your ex wants another chance you need to let him know where you stand and either tell him he could wait or forget it. I mean what are you some sort of door he can open when he wants to come crawling back when he wants too? If you let him into your life when your not ready, his going to look at you as if your "worthless" and somebody he isnt going to take seriously because he knows he can come back whenever he wants. Dont let your self be played like that =) Your somebody that matters and you dont need to rush in or be something that you dont need to be!
2007-06-16 14:07:46
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answered by Mays 2
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Take a break and find yourself, your interest, your priorities and decide what will be your life for the future.
You've got to know him better, know the clear reason why he want you and him together again.
You have been cheated once by him, watch out! for the second time
2007-06-16 14:10:29
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answered by idone 1
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Just be honest with your ex, and tell him how you feel.
Let him know that you are not ready to be in a relationship right now and that you need some time to yourself.
Be honest with him.
2007-06-16 14:07:27
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answered by Seldom Seen 4
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well, make sure you look at him and think these Q's over..
1.) is he hott?
2.)do you like him at all?
it really depends how serious your relationship was 8 months ago..because my ex did that two exept we were going out for almost 3 years and then 2 years later he asked me out again..so i said yes and he ended up breaking my heart so badly by cheating on me with another girl...so make sure you think about this!!!!! hope i could helppppp =)
2007-06-16 14:07:23
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answered by emilybabe23 1
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I think you just answered your own question. Tell him how you feel about him (whatever that may be), and along with that, tell him exactly what you just told all of Yahoo!...you aren't ready yet. Maybe say you'd love to keep in touch. Through that, you may warm up to him quickly, or maybe even realize that you don't want to be with him. Don't listen to your friends this time. Do what feels right to you. Take it easy.
2007-06-16 14:07:12
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answered by Anonymous
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IF HE IS THE ONE THAT CHEATED ON YOU AND DUMPED YOU
nope dont go
and you arent ready then dont
who cares what people say go for what Your self is telling you
2007-06-16 14:05:05
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answered by BREATH NEVER PAUSE YOUR LUNGS!! 3
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It depends on why you broke up in the first place. Him not calling you everyday is diffrent from him beating your behind everyday. If you think that he has changed and want him back, take it very slow. However if he was abusive, or a cheater, don't put yourself through the drama, stay alone.
2007-06-16 14:06:01
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answered by breezylocks2000 3
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