this is not a date
this group is just going to see a movie and hang out
but i like one of the girls there
i dont think that she knows i like her
and i am not sure if she likes me or not
but i am going to try to sit next to her
but what can i do to charm her up
2007-06-16 12:52:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go with ur gut
try the jacket lending trick
2007-06-18 02:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you're close to her at all times. Smell good that night. Look good. (hair washed, nails in good shape, etc. ) Open the door (for her), offer to buy her popcorn, etc. Make sure you get her a napkin. Smile at her - a lot. Make small talk, tell a couple jokes, ask her questions that would help you have a reason to keep talking (what do you like to do? What are your hobbies? ) Make a big deal - (not overly though) about her outfit, her hair, etc. Make her feel pretty. If you can, sit next to her. Laugh when she laughs. Don't be too pushy. The perfect deal would be - if it's cold in the theater and you have a 'jacket' or something you could lend her for the time being. Girls really love it when a guy pays attention. Make sure that you also pay attention to the group - you don't want to be too obvious. When you're walking out, stay with her until she gets a ride - or whatever the situation is. Then the biggie - ask her if she would consider going out with you. Ask her to go somewhere really special - like a concert - (find out who she likes), or Starbucks or some place that is nice. Good luck. Let us hear what happened.
2007-06-16 13:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how your money situation is, but offer to buy her a pop or something little at first - (I know it may sound shallow, but it does work) see how her reaction is. This could open the door for you. Good Luck
2007-06-16 12:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by MOMMAMINDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to buy her some popcorn or something.
If she needs something, offer to go get it. Be nice and polite. Try to make her laugh, girls love guys who are funny. Good luck!
2007-06-16 14:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self. Talk to her,make her laugh a girl loves it when a guy can make her laugh. Good Luck!
2007-06-16 13:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by Boopalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww how sweet...Just be yourself and be care free...Plus ask her if she wants something to eat or drink. Ask her if she likes the movie afterwards. She'll get the hint...Good luck
2007-06-16 12:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her laugh girls like guys w/ a since of humor. (but dont try too hard or you will look obnoxious) just be yourself
2007-06-16 12:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kay Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to sound smart and have a sience of humer
2007-06-16 12:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't TRY and charm her, be yourself, if your a funny guy BE FUNNY, if your a sweetheart BE A SWEETHEART! just act normal otherwise she'll know you put on an act and that is not hot.
2007-06-16 12:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by basketball_dancediva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a ring in the popcorn and ask her if she would like to have some.
2007-06-16 12:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by Kemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋