I have always wondered why a good portion of men who go out are always talking to the slutty dressed women. My friends and I are always "Jazzy" but with good taste and we are sometimes left behind because the "trashy" takes over the room, why?? You would think a "good" man would want a woman who takes care of herself and a woman who actually cares about how others view her in public??
2007-06-16 12:46:05 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
they probably arent the good men you see them to be, they probably just want a good night, those women look a lot easier to get than you and your group of girls that stick together like an impenetrable shield of no penises
2007-06-16 12:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if the men are going for the 'trash', then you already know where their heads are - and you should be glad not to be chosen from anyone in that bunch. There are some nice clubs and places that you can go and you will see that the real men look for 'ladies'. Now, if you think that maybe you are a little too 'prissy' in the dress department - why don't you jazz it up a little. You don't have to be slutty dressed in order to get the attention of some of the guys. Wear a top that is cut a little lower. Make sure your nails and hair look good, laugh a little more, toss your hair, and be a little freer. Sometimes men look at women who appear to have confidence, assured of themselves and still enjoy the company of men. It's all in how you carry yourself and all your essentials. (smile) I was always told that 'good men', like 'good women' usually don't hang in bars looking for mates - but a nice club that might specialize in singles might be a good place to meet someone. It's been a while since I have been in a 'bar' - however, I do enjoy clubs that have live entertainment and dancing.
2007-06-16 13:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men are not in bars to find a future girlfriend or wife. They are there in order to do the horizontal mambo. They think that sleezy looking girls are easier targets...not always the case...but this is how they think. You need to decide what you and your friends true objectives are. If you're looking for a "good" man...you might want to broaden your horizons. Go to other places to meet men.
2007-06-16 13:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by mhchicetawn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe, me those men are only interested in one thing, from those trashy dressed women. Believe me, that type won't be going home to meet the parents.
2007-06-16 12:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by That one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The good men aren't the ones talking to the sluts. Those are the horny men. If you want to meet a good man, you'll probably have to initiate the conversation because he's admiring you from afar and is too much of a gentleman to approach you.
2007-06-16 12:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by moodymomma 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Proverbs 20:1 "Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived therefore is not wise ".Proverbs 23 :33 " Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and utter perverse things ". Alcohol controls the soul , that is why men do things that they normally wouldn't do ".
2007-06-16 12:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A classy woman showing sex appeal is always fun, and I'm gay! I love watching women even if I don't want sex. I just find them attractive, sexual and interesting. I think men want someone who's interesting while sexy or at least appealing, meaning clean and healthy : )
2007-06-16 12:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all look the same to me when I am drunk.
I like classy gals though.
2007-06-16 12:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause 'good girls' don't go home with a guy they meet at a bar!
2007-06-16 12:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
trashy says take me now
classy says feed me first
2007-06-16 12:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋