My great aunt died 4 year's ago. People in the family talk about and I just ache inside. She was always there for my mom and I when I was younger. She was pretty much my everything. When people talk about her I just cry, I can't stop thinking about. Everyday I wonder why her, why did she have to die. I am missing a part of me that was ripped out. Can you give me advice on grieving please to stop it??
2007-06-16 11:22:47 · 6 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is a hard thing to accept sometimes when my Grandma died I just knew my world was going to crash and burn my heart ached day in and day out it hurt so bad.I would come home and call her name and she wasn't there all I could do is sit there and just cry.I realized that we did not come to this world to stay it wasn't in the promise of God it was originally but sin happen all because of the deceiving devil came along.In the Bible it says there is a time to mourn and a time to dance and be happy (Ecc:4:8) just do the things she did to get with her in home I know she is in heaven because it sounds like she was a nice person.Do not rush yourself to heaven just to be with her because God says why die before your time nothing is wrong with you thinking about all the good times you had with your aunt but don't cry because maybe it was better than this cruel world if she was sick before she died maybe it was her pray to be delivered from her hurt and pain.Smile and know that one day you will be able to see her.Love yourself and just pray and find ways to go out and enjoy life while you have it ...I hope I helped you even if it was just a bit if you need someone to talk to then feel free to email me...
2007-06-16 11:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes in families with great losses like these it offers the other members a chance to get their lives together,before we meet God your aunt was probably a great leader and many depended on her.now they are dealing on their own death is not a hurting tool used by God but he allows it.never put anything or anybody before him because he is a jealous God.remember your aunt but be careful not to lose yourself and become depressed ok pray for understanding ok God bless you young lady
2007-06-16 18:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by ccknewera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will die someday, and while we understand that our loved ones will miss us (as we miss them), we don't want them to "die" with us. We want them to continue living life to its fullest and having happy productive lives I'm sorry for your loss, and I know you have honored your aunt through your grief. Honor her again by living life as God intends; she wouldn't want you to be sad forever. You'll never forget her death, but from here it may be healthier to focus on her life and the joys you all shared. She sounds like a beautiful soul; that should bring a smile to your face.
2007-06-16 18:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry that she died...but you have to realize that this feeling will never completly go away but it will get better trust me... just think about the happy things....also sometimes all you have to do is cry for hours thats sometimes the only way to feel better for a short time...im really sorry that this had to happen to you and i know how you feel...just try to stay happy
2007-06-16 18:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it gets better as time goes on,, at least you have a nice family who you can have for grieg support, when my grandmother died they told me im a stupid weirdo for feeling bad for a whole week and they were partying the night after.
2007-06-16 18:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about life instead of death
2007-06-16 18:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋