my brother and my cousin hang out. my cousin is 18 and my bro is 13. my cousin has always hated me. i dont know why. she beat me up last week. she dropped out of school, drinks, sells drugs, and is a loser. she also has sex with every guy. now her and my brother went on my email account and did bad things on there. my brother is giving me messages saying she is cooler than me and he wish i were dead. my cousin is brainwashing my brother. now he hates me. my brother wants me dead. i didnt even do anything and he is sending me mean messages. what should i do? he never lets me forget that im the incomplete loser. i guess she is cool and im not. help! my brother hates me! she also stole my brothers games and he still thinks that she is cool. he even laughed at me when i got beat up. now he even hates my mom. what should i do? they are making me sick and sad. i cant take it anymore. my cousin is a loser and so is my brother for being with her. i hate them both and want them to die too.
2007-06-16 11:22:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You probably won't like my answer since your brother will dislike you even more if you do it; but it would be for his own good. If he continues hanging out with her he may turn out to be just like her. I would talk with your parents. Tell them what has been happening and what a bad influence your cousin is on him. Your parents need to step in and not let that cousin near you guys. As far as emails go, if you get an enmail from either one, just hit delete. Oh, and change your password to keep them out.
2007-06-16 11:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother about all that has been going on, you have the e-mails as proof. Are you opposite of your cousin, if so, she may just be jealous that you are in fact a better person than she and she's using your brother against you. Tell your parents and have them have a meeting with you and your brother and talk everything out, tell your brother your true feelings of how he's hurt you. Your parents should also talk to your cousins parents about all this and hopefully they should have to distance your brother from your cousin.
2007-06-16 18:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Chaun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your cousins mom what is going on. Have a heart to heart with your brother. Tell your parents what is going on. Tell off your cousin. And if they do anything really bad to you, call the police. This cousin of yours sounds like she needs a kick in the a ss and to grow up. See if you can possibly call the police and stage a drug bust at her house. They can then put her in jail and you wont have to worry about her anymore.
2007-06-16 18:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just far too mature for them. Go on with your other life pleasures and let them be silly. Protect yourself from anything they can do that upsets you. Change your email. Avoid both of them. Just be too busy. Leave them in the dust. Maybe they will grow up and later on things will be better. Don't wish anyone dead. You kind of sound like them.
There are always other options to explore, use your brain and not your emotions. Just because they are family does not mean you have to take anything from them that you wouldn't take or give to anyone else. Lots of families don't jive with eachother. Give it time and see where it goes and for god's sake choose happiness.
2007-06-16 18:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a big breath honey. Unfortunately, the only way your brother is going to understand that she is a bad influence is when he gets picked up by the police, or hurt in some way. The best thing you can do for yourself is to stay away from them and spend more time with your friends and other family members.
2007-06-16 18:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireSeaFairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let themn get u down! if they see that they have made u sad and depressed they have won! we don't let any one win that easy! u should change your passwords and u don't need 2 b hangin out with them drinkin and doin drugs any way it never leads to any thing other than trouble! id find some people a lil more fun and respecting 2 hang out with maybe even older kids they are always more mature! good luck
2007-06-16 18:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by brandi g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you know that your cousin is a sicko so just make them feel as bad as you can because that's really sick or U can just like hit her in the face with i bat jk well just try to work it out because your brother can be doing drugs with her
2007-06-16 18:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about this pretty soon. Your brother sounds like he's headed for some serious trouble if he's not there already.
2007-06-16 18:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You could probably charge her. Tell your parents. Try to stay away from them. Get a lock on your bedroom door so when she comes over just lock the door and stay in your room until she's gone. I suggest you tell someone about it and try to avoid the two.
2007-06-16 18:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off, your cousin is a b*tch.
You should sabotage her birth control, or poke holes in her condoms.
If you want to get revenge, that is.
When she's pregnant with kids, your brother won't think she's so cool.
2007-06-16 18:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by cat 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋