I was just wondering how many people believe that after u tell someone u like them & they do not feel the same at first, but then they start to feel the same later
2007-06-16 11:18:24 · 19 answers · asked by bmh1394 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
2007-06-24 00:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not so unusual. Someone has to be the first to say something, and it takes time to get used to the idea right away. You've had time to think about it and you know how you feel. This is the first they're hearing about it.
When they say they never thought of you in that way its only because they havent had a chance. If you want to get all offended because you weren't on their radar like they were on yours then thats just petty.
Reaching out and saying I like/love you is a huge risk and people should be flattered. Many will see such a warm gesture as the sign of someone they want to be with and warm up to the idea quickly.
Love is a verb. theres nothing wrong with loving someone back JUST BECAUSE they loved you first.
2007-06-24 05:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. Because after you tell someone that one have feelings for you, and before that, they didn't know you were alive. You see after that, that person starts to think about you in a much differant way, it's like all of a sudden you can see the forest though the trees.
2007-06-24 18:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that happens a lot with people. Me and one of my guy friends were talking about it the other day and determined that if you already know the person likes you then your chances for success are already up there. Unless there is something wrong with the person the fact that they like you might open up your eyes to them.
2007-06-24 12:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by lil e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible to gauge this. When it happens, it happens. Sometimes someone starts liking you just because they know you like them and it's a sure bet - you're a sure thing - they don't have to work hard to get you because you already like them. Be careful of this!
2007-06-16 18:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by tooblessed2doubt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
Girls normally know when they like someone right away. Its hard for me to be attracted to someone if Im automatically 'no' in the first place.
Guys are different. They can be swayed.
2007-06-24 15:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, not so much. if anything, i would say it is pretty rare. in general, most people enjoy the conquest, and the uncertainty of a new relationship. and so knowing that the other person has affection for you is possibly a little off-puting for many people.
2007-06-16 18:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by girl3blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its depends . Sometimes people are scared to be rejected so they keep quite even they love you sometimes it makes them think bad when you express your feelings . When a woman proposed man think she is easy to get and lost there attraction i think . good luck
2007-06-16 18:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by Romy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea thats totally true
2007-06-24 14:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by musicluvrsammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe it depending on the situation, however, it usually after you are over them and onto sumone else
2007-06-16 18:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by Dar-E-O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋