Everyone thinks Im weird. For me, girls these days just want to have sex. They get mad at me when I dont. Its special to me but people laugh. Am I weird.
2007-06-16 11:16:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You're not weird, and I can see where it's much easier for women to decline than it is for men.
Girls are getting mad at you because they see it as a rejection (guys get mad for the same reason, but girls feel that it's not just sexual rejection but also emotional rejection). So it may be as simple as explaining that it really doesn't mean you don't care for them, or that you aren't attracted to them - it's just a personal decision you've made that you aren't going to be sexually active until you're married.
You might also look at the girls you are attracted to. It's not really fair to try to date girls who are all about expressing themselves sexually and expecting them to change for you. I was up front with guys like that, and consequently didn't date much. But when the right guy came along (and he did) he understood perfectly.
2007-06-16 11:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by Contemplative Chanteuse IDK TIRH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 11:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, not ALL girls want to have sex. Usually it is the males that want it. Males becomes sexually mature around 18-25 and females are in their 30s.
If girls want to have sex, either they have been abused, are sluts, are looking for love in the wrong way, haven't been taught about relationships from their parents in the right way, or they do want sex and don't care about being in love, being married or care about the consequences (pregnancy, STDs).
You aren't weird!!!!! Wait until you are ready for this intimate, personal experience. Don't worry what others say. I wish my husband had been a virgin. Don't do something you will regret. And there are many consequences to sex, even with protection. Because protection is not 100% safe.
God created 2 genders for a reason. To have more people. He created us to fall in love, to experience all the properties of love and a marriage. Sleeping around before you 'settle down' takes part of you and takes that part of you from your future spouse. What I will never understand from people that say sex is great, do it, get experience before getting married, find out how to satisfy the opposite sex so you will make your spouse happy.... is there is SO MUCH MORE to life than sex. I could make a list of things I'd rather do in the next year instead of sleeping around.
2007-06-16 11:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it special, don't sleep with just anyone. People who sleep with anyone end up with STD's, guilt later in life, and spouses who wonder who all they've slept with when they go to a social gathering with them. If you'll sleep with just anyone, then you generally don't consider sex as special. That to me "cheapens" sex. When I sleep with someone, I want them to know that they are very special to me, and that not just anyone can sleep with me. When we walk into a room, I want her to know that this nice, charming, handsome man could have slept with a lot of these women, but chose her, because she is special to me. Bye the way, I had a woman tell me once that I must have slept with a lot of women because I was such a good kisser. Chuckled about that one for a long time. I can look in the mirror every day and feel good about myself, and how I've treated the opposite sex. That's something money can't buy.
2007-06-16 11:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have something that unfortunitly these days has become very rare, something called morals. Im going through the same thing and as a Christian we believe that sex is something to be kept sacred and should only be shared through something called marriage where you know that you will be spending the remainder or your life with that special someone. Let them laugh, point, stare and talk as much as they want but dont forget that your the one here that should be laughing, laughing at their inability to understand, laughing at the inability to want to understand.
Stay Strong
2007-06-16 11:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Way to go! You totally aren't weird. Your just looking in all the wrong places. If girls laugh at you for your belief then apparently they aren't the right kind of girls for you. Don't let the pressure get to you. Temptation is here for a reason. We Christians don't have to explain our belief of waiting till marriage, just like you don't have to explain why you have ears. lol! It is God's will. Good luck and God bless!
2007-06-16 11:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the world tells you to have pre-marital sex, get drunk, etc.
God tells you to be modest and spiritual. Listen to God. God bless.
"Don't become like the people of this world. Instead, change the way you think. Then you will always be able to determine what God really wants-what is good, pleasing, and perfect" Romans." 12:2
"envy, drunkenness, wild partying, and similar things. I've told you in the past and I'm telling you again that people who do these kinds of things will not inherit the kingdom of God." Galatians 5:21
2007-06-16 11:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I didn't lose my virginity until after I was married. My wife was my first and I was her first. I might be a coincidence but we are still happily married 9 years later. Especially considering the divorce rate in this country is so high, and most marriages don't make it past 2 years; make your own conclusion.
2007-06-16 12:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Christian and I have had sex with a number of girls in the past but really if I could go back on it, I would have waited till marriage. It's worth waiting for.
2007-06-16 11:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan K 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're weird. I am planning on staying "clean" until marriage. People today don't grasp the concept of staying clean and being monogomous because it is a truly beautiful thing. These days, it's so easy to sleep around and do whatever you want that people don't see the true harm.
God doesn't want us to sleep around, and sex before marriage is frowned upon too.
2007-06-16 11:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋