A friend of mine, who i like, is having a beach party with her friends from school to hang out all day since summer break is now here. Since i like her, i figure this may be an okay time to try to become better friends with her without asking her out. I plan to bring a guitar, but is ther anything else i can do to impress her or make the situation better? Also, what should i do when i get there?
Please dont say somthing like "Wear a speedo!!". Do NOT say anything like that..
Thanks to any other answers.
2007-06-16
10:40:34
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who ever said "sombrero".. wow.. thats stupid.. sorry, but thats kinda wierd...
Anyway, Id like a different answer than "be yourself. please say somthing else"
2007-06-19
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Wonder if you can sing.It's a beach party,wear bright loose fitting clothes and a sombrero type hat.You'll probably play water games.Just have fun and party
2007-06-16 15:48:19
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answered by Anonymous
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If you don't usually bring a guitar to a party, then leave it at home. You don't want people to tell you to be yourself, but the problem is that if you are "not" yourself, she will either:
a) recognize the fact that you're not being yourself, or
b) be attracted to someone you're not.
So, sorry, but "be yourself" and exude the confidence of someone who knows that what you are is good enough.
2007-06-24 03:36:55
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answered by Kevin S 7
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I think the guitar thing is way cool. Personally, I love a guy with talent! (just dont be a show off). Just be yourself and dont worry...once she sees what a nice guy you are and that you can have fun and get along with everyone, she'll come around. Just take it slow. Good luck with the party.
2007-06-23 22:50:21
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answered by Debbie 5
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my advice to you is be yourself. Playing the guitar and singing will be impressive, but show you have more to offer, not just entertainment. My friend, if she does not like you for yourself, she may not be worth it. If she is a good person she should like to see how you really are not a plastic copy of yourself. Good Luck, & Aloha
2007-06-24 16:43:59
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answered by meg o hawaii 2
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be yourself have fun at the beach party let her come to u some girls don't like being pressured she will see the way u r and probably will want to spend more time with u good luck
2007-06-24 11:18:33
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answered by 2sweet 2
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sorry but it is true. you just need to be yourself don't try to impress her. girls don't like that. when you get there go tell her hi and give her a hug. don't just hangout with her she may get annoyed. talk to her every once in a while. don't stay stuck up her butt. DO NOT TRY TO IMPRESS HER. girls love guys that aren't afraid to be theirself. hangout after the party and help her clean up. chat with her while doing it. then i ask her if it would be ok that you ask her out sometime. good luck!
2007-06-24 12:29:28
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answered by bigmouth3030 1
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ask her if she needs any help getting ready for the party or during the party, like filling the ice bucket or making sure there is enough soda/drinks handy, etc. And then really help her...nothing is worse than expecting someone to help and then they dont.
2007-06-24 15:47:29
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answered by Sophiesmama 6
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Why are you asking for a different answer than be yourself. That is the RIGHT ANSWER! Don't try too hard to impress her. If she likes you she likes you for you. (Didja get that lol) SO I will say BE YOURSELF!
2007-06-24 14:03:35
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answered by Anonymous
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treat her good and kind wen the stars are out ask her to walk down the beach with you just you two then sit her down and talk to her about things then lay back and look at the stars and talk to her about what she likes to do and so on snd so on good luck!
2007-06-24 05:59:20
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answered by Anonymous
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dont try anything slick. hang around with her, just dont stalk her. give her time to herself. act as natural as possible
2007-06-24 16:09:40
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answered by Anonymous
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