long distance relationship and feelings are strong between the two.
2007-06-16 10:01:34 · 29 answers · asked by fall out boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously the both of you are dead wrong. The both of you should call it even. If the two of you were so serious about each other in the first place, then the both of you wouldn't be seeing other people behind each others back. I think the two of you should sit down and have a face to face , heart to heart discussion about this matter and decide whether the two of you should remain together. Most important is that there are AIDS among a lot of other sexual diseases out there that people are contracting as well as dying from. People put your life into order. Put your priorities in order. AIDS kills. Get yourselves a medical check up and stop the nonsense for Gods sake.!!!!!!! I'm worried about you both. Please reply.
2007-06-16 10:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kamori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously feelings are not strong if both of you are cheating. However if you both really wanna remain together on some level...I dont believe in this but some do so I can respect others rights to the kind of relationship they want; so why not just come forward with the truth and ask for an open relationship. Your both already doing it, now just be honest about it. Why not?
2007-06-16 17:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I will say that, you cannot be angry with her. She also, cannot be angry with you. The best advice that I can give to you, is that the two of you should really part ways. If the two of you are secretly indulging in someone else, then what do you need each other for? Don't beat around the bush because in the end, the both of you still will look like two fools. Just back out now, because evidently, there is something extremly wrong with your relationship. Just go and be with the other person...if I were her, I would want that.
2007-06-24 16:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by crazychill123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is how did you found out she was cheating. If you cheat it does not mean she cheats. Long distance works if both are committed and have a short amount of time to be togther. It takes perseverance, trust, and committment. I am talking from experience.
The way both of you are now it does not work. There is no love or emotional connection. Before you carry out this deed to a marriage, get together and talk about the situation and call it quit.
2007-06-16 17:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by adisma98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its time to re-evaluate the relationship. If you are both cheating how strong can the relationship actually be? if you truly cared you wouldn't cheat. But obviously you can't get all mad about it. The only thing you did better was to not get caught. If you are really sure that the feelings are strong then try talking it out. if you truly care maybe you can work things out
2007-06-16 17:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by a.rose19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bad Jerry Springer type situation! Shame on both of you, she probably found out your shady behind was cheating and figured two can play that game. Regardless it's unhealthy and an STD fest waiting to happen. End the relationship ASAP!
2007-06-24 16:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by howuderrn! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. in my opinion it is hard to keep a long distance relationship. Also if you are both cheating on each other.. do you really love each other that much then. I guess it is really your call to decide, but if you were me i would end it.
good luck
P.S. i love fall out boy
Dani
2007-06-16 17:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to decide if you want to stay and work on your relationship because if both of ya'll were cheating, then there is a problem.
Second, you can get mad but why should you? You've been cheating yourself.
So my advice is, if you want to work on it... then come clean and tell her the truth so ya'll can make a fresh start. If you don't want to work it out, tell her the truth anyways and then break it off.
2007-06-24 16:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by bbgirl180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to end the relationship if you are both looking outside it for someone else...unless you want it to be an "open" relationship, especially since you're long distance. I think you should both simply be honest about what you are doing, though.
2007-06-16 17:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your cheating too. you both should just talk it out with each other and decide if you both want to really work at keeping the relationship or just give up on it because youre both already cheating on each other
2007-06-16 17:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋