why do people do this?
does it mean you were bad in bed?
2007-06-16 06:09:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. either that or you weirded them out in the morning, but probably REALLY bad in bed. sorry.
2007-06-16 06:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by zeroambition 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have never done this, but I understand why it happens. Both Men and Women have a desire for Sex. Some go about getting it differently than others (relationships vs. One night Stands). It's unfortunate that people get used, but it's what happens. One needs to be careful when they pick a partner as not to get hurt. It has nothing to do with your performance, it just means the other person got what they wanted and is moving on. Consider it a lesson learned.
2007-06-16 13:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by son_of_glen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly they were already in a relationship and had a quickie but had not the balls to say so. I would say they have the problem in that they are really not very nice and will get their *** kicked sooner or later.
Don;t take the comments about bad in bed to heart . The right people together and the right reasons in another time and place and you will be the best ever.
2007-06-16 15:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say people actually do this to innocent ones. They only want sex. If they were to tell you that they only wanted sex, they know that they would not get any, so it is a lot easier to tell you after they have gotten what they want from you. It is NOT because you are bad in bed!
2007-06-19 23:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by sabb_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt mean you where bad in bed. I think people just do this when they have one night stands. I think people are shocked now adays when you dont sleep with them on the first night and will be attracted to you more for this. Dont dwell on it they arent worth the thought.
2007-06-16 17:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Blonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I have said "Thanks, but this is it". Usually if I just wanted a shag with no strings attached. Don't feel that it's something you did wrong, unless it happens more than three times in a row. Enjoy it for what it was and next time, if you are not into one night stands, then don't be so quick to jump into bed with randoms.
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2007-06-16 13:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dee Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means you didn't know your temporary partner well enough to know if this would happen. You weren't the first one-night only and won't be the last.
If you don't like the feeling, put off sex until you know the person better.
2007-06-16 13:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
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no seriously i bet i can guess who your dating, my ex did that
yeah its happened to me and no it doesnt mean you were bad in bed it means that the guy or gal has morals and only wanted to use u for sex! shocking but true.
believe me you get over it, unless 3 weeks later you find that your pregnant boy that sucks.
happened to me , was soooo not funny. but hey life goes on and the ppl that said it aint worth *****
2007-06-16 13:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by spongebobs biggest fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! That is terrible. No it means that you slept with an asshole. Move on and forget him or her. Sometimes people just use each other, hope you didn't have feelings for this person. You deserve better!
2007-06-16 13:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by Heeheheehee 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No it proberly means
they just wanted a ****
no strings attached
2007-06-16 13:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋