Is it normal for a teen to be depressed for no reason?

Question

I was married 6 months ago and my hubby is very supportive, kind and loves me. The biggest thing in my life was marriage. Sometimes I get a sudden depression even though I was previously happy. I don't even know why I am depressed. I would prefer answers from experts or experienced people please.

Answer 1

I think it is normal, I'm 16 and sometimes I get really depressed and upset about nothing and it's been happening to me for about a year and a half now. I guess the thing is that it doesn't last very long, I only feel like that for a day or something and the rest of the time I'm alright. Maybe if you feel like this a lot of the time you should speak to a doctor about it incase you have depression, but if it only happens sometimes I think it's normal.

Answer 2

yes it is normal to be deppressed i am 18 and have had deppression since i was 13 but i am probably in a diffrent situation where i had a family member do something that was unthinkable at the time, if u really think you are depprwssed u should see a doctor right away to get help,ask for effexor-xr it is the best one out and the only one that helped me, deppression isnt just about thinking bad things it also has a lot more to it then that which can range deppending on how bad it is,heres some signs of deppression. 1.tired and lethargic 2.feeling nauseas-sorry dont know how to spell it 3.Depression is not simply normal sadness, being moody or just a low mood, but a serious illness. It causes both physical and psychological symptoms. Depression is common. Up to one in four females and one in six males will experience depression in their lifetime. Depression is the leading cause of suicide. Depression is often not recognised or treated. Current treatments for depression are safe and effective. Depression also commonly occurs with specific anxiety syndromes here is behaviours of deppression. Stopped going out Not getting things done at work Withdrawn from close family and friends Relying on alcohol and sedatives Stopped doing things you enjoy Unable to concentrate these are physical symptoms Tired all the time Sick and run down Headaches and muscle pains Churning gut Can't sleep Poor appetite/weight loss

Answer 3

I am concerned about a couple of things that you said, first, you are a teen and married? What prompted you to get married so young? Second, all your energies should not be tied up in your marriage. You should foster good female relationships outside of it, pursue your dreams and work at fostering a healthy marriage which means you are like to "praying hands", not "clasped hands" together. You both need to be honest and open in communication; expressing healthy wants and needs, compromising and respecting each other. No person should be controlled or manipulated by the other.

Ask yourself what is happening when you "suddenly" become depressed. Did your husband say or do something that hurt you; what was said or done? Did you have a memory from childhood that was negative? Are your needs not being met?

I strongly suggest marriage counseling with a good counselor to talk about what is happening in your relationship. This is something people should do BEFORE marriage, but many don't. Marriage is an important commitment and requires mature, loving adults devoted to uplifting and nurturing both parties.

Answer 4

I am a teen, and I would have these too. People found that I lacked self confidence due to weight issues, etc. I don't really get them now as often, but there are times that I'm just sad and I listen to sad music.. I don't know why either. Try talking to your doctor about taking anti-depressants.

Answer 5

okay, depressed person talking here.actually ex depressed person here. it is not normal for anyone of any age to be depressed. my husband and i were both in our teens when we got married and had a baby right away. teen years are very difficult years without being married. your husband is definitely a keeper. sounds like my husband. you really need to talk to a doctor. start with you family doctor. that the best place to start. or tslk to dfs to see if they can help. if they can't maybe they can figure out for you who can help you. good luck. and GODs Blessings

Answer 6

I went through the same thing, even though I had a wonderful husband and great job. It turned out my birth control pills were making me depressed. I changed to another kind--Ovcon, and it was much better.

Answer 7

if u have depression yes, u will get some mood swings where ur depressed for no reason. i get them all the time. im 18 yrs old and being diagnosed wit severe depression since 14yrs old it sucks. if u wanna talk im me or email me.

Answer 8

wow i can relate to what you said, some times i get what i call instant depression, im on a new med and it is helping that, i would ask your doctor for a good ssri like prozac.